This is the first time I've legitimately considered murdering someone.

Any type of violence doesn't solve these kind of problems. Physically hurting or killing someone doesn't help anything. If you guys care about what happens to him, get him in a anger management program and/or full-time facility. If you don't really care, kick him out and let the streets straighten him out or break him further.

If you don't want him in your parents house...you obviously have to get your parents on board. If they won't cooperate it's not your problem. Some people won't be helped and in my opinion that makes them 100% responsible for the consequences.

 

I agree with everything you've said. I don't care what happens to him and know the only way to fix things is for them to kick him out and let him see what life's like without them. Unfortunately, they'll never go for that (trust me I've tried for years)

It is definitely my mom's fault for allowing this to continue happening, but I still don't think she deserves it. She can be dumb but she's a nice woman; saying she deserves it because she allows it to happen is like saying scam victims deserve to be scammed for being dumb enough to let it happen to them.

I've talked to her about it many times. I'm moving back out soon and I can only hope they do the right thing after I'm gone. I hate having to worry about them when I'm not here, but I'm not gonna let their torture become mine too.

He has calmed down slightly for the time being. Still a disrespectful asshole, but less of one.

 

Well, if you wanna spend the rest of your life in a cage and getting fucked by a black guy named darius go ahead and kill your brother. Not really the best option when you lay them out on the table.
Like you said, your parents are gonna be devastated if they lost "both" of their sons.

I have a few opinions on this subject.

1) How could you hate your blood related brother that you spent your childhood with enough to consider murdering him enough to post here? Must be pretty bad.
2) Killing your brother really only results in one solution, he's dead, he can't torment everyone in your house anymore..Yay..but on the otherhand your parents may hate you for doing so, or even attempting to do so that the idea may backfire on you and your stuck with guilty continence and overwhelming depression that's uncontrollable.
3) In my own personal opinion, kicking your brother out and making him work for a living just to realize on Friday he has no check left because he has to buy food, gas for whatever traveling he may do, car insurance, homeowners insurance, health insurance, maintenance on the vehicle, light bill, water bill, internet unless he prefers to die of boredom, phone to call his drug dealers and ofcourse, drugs, which will probably just consume his life therefore he can't pay his shit and realizes mommy and daddy deserve some respect and an apology annndd that he fucked up.

Honestly, convince your parents to cut him off, maybe not let him live in the streets but provide his own food and portion of the utility bills he uses. Make him support himself but without...letting him be homeless if that makes any sense.

In the meantime, realize this situation is really out of your hands and left up to your parents. It's their home, their money and their son. Unconditional love is a hard thing to overcome. Goodluck buddy

 

I just worded things badly. I've said I have no intention of actually killing anyone a few times now, but I can see how the title can be misleading haha. I just like helping people and can't figure out a way to help with this particular situation without my parents' cooperation. I typed the entire post out in the middle of one of his episodes and immediately after a physical altercation so the adrenaline was pumping, hence the poor choice of title.

You're absolutely right about the last part though. I've accepted that there's nothing I can do and will soon be moving back out on my own and just hoping that he / my parents realize the severity of the situation and make steps to fix it. I'll worry about them, but I can't help someone that doesn't want to help themselves.