Are you in it for the right reasons? Because there are quite a few people who would join the military for no reason at all except its supposively going to get them to college.
Will you be able to cope with the stress they will give you?
Are you going to be able to shoot a kid that is about to shoot a member of your unit?
Are you psychologically stable?
Questions that you must answer. Because, sure as hell I don't want a pussy that won't shoot back, won't fight, and is crazy having my back when I join. Think this true, you might just want to the military to have a glorious death. There is no such thing, you die, you die that's it, GAME OVER. They will send you through rigorous training, you will be away from home for long periods of time.
I am not trying to keep you from joining, but I am saying what is true. But don't let that get in the way fi you really wanna join. Because, god damn sure as hell I won't because, I'm joining in 2 years, 6 days and errr....can't remember the hours :S
Which kind of soldier will you be, one that will work as your supposed to, or the one that will stop a second to think over what you're about to do morally. You have to understand, either you or them if they have a gun to your face. Will you react like a soldier, or will you react like a civilian? Again, I am not scaring you away, I'm a young recruiter(meaning I'm not enlisted but I try to get people to join), if I wanted to, I would have told you to join and told stories of glorious battles, and the glory of being a soldier. But, like I have said, there are going to be those that won't be able to function right under stress.