Friend help, fast.

Me and my dude, we're pretty much brothers.
You have no idea how close we are.
But, he started going out with this girl, and it was all good.
Then I got jumped, and he didn't do shit to help.
And yea, I was mad, so I stopped talking to him for a few days.
He don't know why, I just didn't answer his calls.
The my other dude told me he said I was acting all cool cause I got hit. That pissed me off.
Then yesterday at the football game, I walked passed him and did the littlehead nod thing. And we both did it.
And his girl was like "Yeaa, to cool to talk to us huh?"
And I just ignored and her kept walking.
And now my dude facebook status is some shit like "Suppost to be a bro, but now you dont want anything to do with me?"
So idk, what should I do?

 

Perhaps you should actually talk to him?
Jesus.

 

Tell him how you feel. How is he supposed to know why you're ignoring him?

 

Yea. Tell him why and remind him that its "bros before hoes"

 

What are you guys? 10? Confront him, ask him why he didn't help you, a real nigga should be there for you. As for her? she has no business, "too cool to talk to us?" Wtf. that's when you tell your bro yo you better tell your girl to keep her mouth shut cuz i'll slap the bitch. Man confront this bitch, none of this gay distance bullshit, dude posted that shit up on facebook, is he gay.. ahah.. man clear things out with him.

 

Can you please avoid needlessly using nigga, bitch and gay?

Thank you.

 

Yes Master,

Would you like me to shine your shoes as well?





..punk ass b..

 

That's pretty messed up that you got jumped and he didn't help... But yeah just talk to him, work it out, a friendship that deep should not be broken by something like that, although I do admit, he should have backed you up.

 

Just confront him and tell him why you're pissed.

 

wow 1 of ur boys should be there for you..
if 1 of my boys got jumped i'd help him out
how can u stand there watching ur own boy get bashed

 

That's a problem, you were jumped but he didn't help.. I wonder why

There you go. he didn't know what happened, that is how I'm interpreting this


But if he DID know:
yeah, it is pretty messed up that he's not there to "get your back," but
don't you think that it's wrong that you're expecting your brother to take the risk of being hurt?

I mean, if he did help you out, he's obviously not going to confront the guys who jumped you with candy or other enticing treats, trying to get them to apologize and ask Jesus Christ to be saved.
He would have to get them the way they got you, right?
And that means that there's a chance of him getting hurt, too, riight?

Is that what you want?

Just saying

 

I don't get why your "best friend" didn't help you when you were getting jumped...what was he doing?

 

was he with you when you were jumped..? you never siad this, if he wasn't I can understand, if he was then uh fuck him

 

He really isn't obligated to help you in a fight. If a good friend of mine was getting jumped, I'm not going to waste a possible 10 day suspention on HIS problems.
He doesn't understand why you're ignoreing him for that reason, so tell him how you feel. If you're truely THAT close, he isn't going to sit and laugh his ass off.
So message him on FB or something, and tell him what's going on.

 

There should be some kind of limit on how often the same advice can be reposted.

But I'd Tell him how you feel. Theres no need to take shots at him solely for having a girlfriend though, thats his choice and you should respect it.