Terribly missing my Family

No idea where to start but oh well. I recently went to a 2 month trip to visit my family just after 9 years since my last visit, at first I wanted to return home since I didn't like the place but throughout the summer I started to fall in love with every member and actually started enjoying my vacations. Now that it's over and since I've returned home I feel really sad and disappointed, I start crying every time I think of them. My only face-to-face interaction with them is FaceTime which is not enough for me. Would feel satisfied if I saw them face to face. I also can't sleep because of this jet lag(Currently in America so I sleep during the day ) causing me to feel always bored and stressed which makes me think more of them and worsen up the situation. I asked my mother when would be go back and she said probably around 2-3 years.
Just starting highschool and really not in the mood to begin a new course.
I can't think of a solution right now, any help would be appreciated.

 

This is completely normal, my family lives in Calgary and I live in Winnipeg and I only get to see them once a year and it hurts to say good bye but I know the next time we see each other it'll be great. I took care of my god son for a year after he was born and his father was deported to Mexico and they left me and I haven't seen them in 2 years and it hurts to see them on face time but that's just life and it's not easy but there's no way I can change it and all I can do is wait until the day they come home. One day you'll all be together and you can always visit them.

 

I moved from Australia to the United Kingdom thinking I wouldn't miss my family at all. I was wrong, I miss them everyday. It's completely normal to miss something/someone that's been taken away from you. I have younger brothers who I'm scared will forget about me since they no longer see me everyday, deep down I know that isn't true... But you just have to look on the bright side, you'll see them again, they probably miss you just as much as you miss them. You're not alone on how you feel, many people leave their families everyday, just keep smiling

 

Don't worry about it man, I get to see my family at least 2 or once a year back home where my parents live but look at it at the bright side as Divica said. But your studying right and one day when you have a Job after you graduate and you start to get paid you'll be able to go and visit them Hard work pays off at the end.

 

It's all normal, ever heard of Home Sickness, you got it? I currently still live at home and I don't know what it would be like to live without parents but it really is just life. People must change and adapt to new surroundings with or without the people they love, at least you still got them and cherish that, just really make the most out of when you see them, hope you get better, and its perfectly fine to cry .

 

This is very normal for you, especially being so young and your emotions are still developing.

In most situations, while family members live together it causes a lot of drama. Most times family members can look back and acknowledge all the fighting they did while they were together compared to the amount they do when they're not.

In most households, once someone moves out the relationship between the family gets better. For some reason, living with your parents causes nothing but unnecessary fights to which although you could be right they will still claim you're wrong (which is normal in any house).

Although a relationship between family gets stronger when you move out, visiting is made very hard. Once it is time to part ways again you find it very difficult to let go. All those feelings are normal, it's part of growing up and being an adult.

 

Yh same for me but its my cousins than my parents visiting them soon though!

 

It's normal to miss your family when I moved away from mine I missed them. Just make sure you talk to them frequently it will help.

 

You just need to stay positive! I'm the same way with my nana and poppy, they mean the world to me and are honestly my favorite people on the planet and I only get to visit them maybe once every 2-3 years and it sucks so much but as I said you need to stay positive and think about all the amazing moments you'll have with them when you actually do get to spend time with them, don't let the sadness effect your school work because who knows when you finish school and get a really good job and get a good income you'll be able to visit them once every 6 months or something.

 

They're actually doing great, they sent you to another place to study even they know that it hurts a lot when someone you loved isn't with you right now but don't worry. After you graduate, immediately go home or after you finished this school year, visit them.