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  1. Unread #1 - Dec 4, 2010 at 8:08 AM
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    I've been dating this girl for over 6 months now, but last night we've hit quite the rough patch.

    See, I get jealous, reeeeally fast. The girl I'm dating, she seriously has like 5 friends who are girls, and the rest of her friends are pretty much guys. Which makes this relationship really hard, because I really like her, and she really likes me (plus she gives good head). She also likes another guy, and has for a long time, which in turn pretty much tears me up inside, though nothing will happen between them, because the guy is one of my good friends, and he doesn't want to get involved. The last thing is, we are compleeeeetely different people. We disagree on a lot of shit, have completely different tastes in music, food, tv shows, movies and other shit. I actually have a hard time talking to her because I just don't know what to talk about. I kind of regret ever even dating her because of this shit I now have to deal with. I guess I should add she is pretty busy with volleyball and snowboarding, so I can pretty much only hang out with her like once or twice a week at max.

    So is this relationship worth it? I just would like a second opinion from you guys, because so far my plan of action is just wait and see.
     
  3. Unread #2 - Dec 4, 2010 at 11:47 PM
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    Definitively not worth it, and here's why:
    1. She likes your friend. Not that there is anything bad with thinking another guy is cute, but you don't want to get your friend involved.

    2. If you can't relate to her and that means that conversation isn't frequent, why force it?

    3. You said you regret dating her. That pretty much says it's not going anywhere, and you have the power to end it now.
     
  5. Unread #3 - Dec 4, 2010 at 11:53 PM
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    You should end it. The only thing you listed as a positive in the relationship is physical pleasure, but if thats worth it for you then by all means stay.
     
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    Agreed with 100% of Gohans words...
     
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    If you're gonna end it, be sure to explain why you did it or she'll think you used her for your own pleasure. Go find someone else.
     
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    Yeah just end it. I sit here wondering, what you mean by "I really like her"
     
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    It doesn't sound worth your time. For starters it's not smart to get in relationships where your girlfriend likes other men as well. That will cause lots of issues especially if they are your friends. Besides she doesn't love you if she also loves some one else. A relationship between a man and a women isn't some thing where 10 of you all get together and live together. (Exaggerated) Also if your having troubles communicating with her that's a bad sign that your relationship wouldn't last much longer unless something big changes.
     
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    I say end it.
    I would give you an explinatiopn but I am pretty sure I don't need one as you can read everybody elses post. :)
     
  17. Unread #9 - Dec 6, 2010 at 2:52 PM
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    End it now, before you get hurt worse if she picks the other man over you.

    I went through the exact same thing, we both "loved" each other, but she only loved me off and on apparently, switching between me and another guy.

    I ended it, were still friends, she's my best friend for a matter a fact, and I'm hers. If you really care about her, then you'll turn into her go to guy, which she can tell anything. At the point just a hug from you will make her day, and you've changed somebodies life (;
     
  19. Unread #10 - Dec 6, 2010 at 2:59 PM
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    You should most likely split your ways, if you can't agree on most anything, and she is digging your friend. end it; I made the same mistake man.
    and It benefited me greatly!
     
  21. Unread #11 - Dec 6, 2010 at 3:14 PM
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    You should dumb her while you can, that way if she asks you, you have a reason which you explained above. That's just what I would do.
     
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