Me and my boyfriend have been over for 2 weeks

So Here's the story. Please help me.

Soo Me and my boyfriend broke up 2 weeks ago. the first few days i was whinny and in denial. and then, I was normal. I deleted him off facebook. Still thought about him every once in a while. Still viewed is profile to see if anything was going on. and then TODAY. I could NOT resist talking to him. I then find out. he has had a new girlfriend for the past week. And he doesn't wanna be friends. he doesn't wanna talk to me. I'm nothing. So I'm trying to accept that. We dated for a year. And now I'm nothing. I still love the boy. he was my first EVERYTHING. But i need to get over him. I think I'll delete his girlfriend off my facebook to so i cant see what there doing. But i need to get over the asshole.

 

This is stupid.

You just said you still "love" him and then go on calling him an asshole. How did you break up?
And it's only natural for him to move on and find someone new. He's not gonna sit around and wait for you to apologize.
Get over it and find someone new.

 

Welll He was going camping and ignored me for a week got back dumped me.

and i know but over a week hes got a new girlfriend?

 

It's not strange for a guy to get a new girlfriend in a week.

The question is, why would he dump you? There's always a reason, no matter how nugatory or otherwise it is.

Personally, I think your still heart-broken. A year is a moderate amount of time to be in a presumably 'committed' relationship with someone. Just try and fill the void if you like. Hang out with your friends, go out and find another boyfriend.

Also, why do you consider your ex-boyfriend an asshole?

 

Your young and down the road you will hardly remember him. Just try to rely on your friends and stay busy so your not dwelling on it. Time heals all wounds.

 

You're going through the five stages of grief. The first part is denial, which you've already experienced. Second stage is anger, which you're currently going through. Next is bargaining.

You're going to beg your boyfriend to take you back, and try to reason with him.. You'll offer him whatever, and promise him things in order to get him back. You'll tell yourself that if you do "x" thing, then your boyfriend will want to take you back.

Then comes the worst part, depression. You'll be numb, and feel sadness/grief. It's imperative that you occupy yourself with distractions, to help you forget and move on. Don't let the grief control you, it can be a pretty powerful (negative) emotion if you do.

I'm speaking both from personal experience and from second-hand experience/reading. Do a Google search on the 5 stages of grief if you don't believe me.

In time, you'll get to the 5th stage, which is acceptance and moving on. That's when the healing can begin.

 

The whole reason he probably left you was because of this 'other girl' that you're talking about, the one he's dating.

I'd say just quit talking to him. You'll start getting over it, and every time you give in and talk to him, you're just going to get yourself in deeper, and it'll take longer to get out. Don't be mad at him for finding someone new, because you can do the same thing. Ya'll are young and 10 to 1, your relationships aren't going to last any longer then maybe a year anyway.

 

Just try and get on with your life now and find a boyfriend.There is nothing more that you could of done and nothing more that you can really do.When you find someone good then you will know what love is.

 

I remember reading your earlier threads about this guy. I don't mean to be rude but you really need to get over this guy. I mean he's been a real jerk to you from what you've said about him. How about you just go out to an area with lots of guys and see if you hit it off with at least one. Meeting someone else will be sure to take your eyes off that guy and it'll be the perfect thing to get you feeling happy again.

 

Just try to get over it like the others said there will always be more..

 

Hey I'm single and ready to mingle <3 lol.But on a real no yea get out party kick it with some friends get your mind off of him