Horrible friends

I've always disliked my companions in school for bruising me, pushing me around, and insulting me beyond what one would label "friendly poke". Today was the final blow. A minor incident occurred where I was in possession of a friend's pencil. I have to admit, I was being stubborn and I did not give it back. He offered another pencil that he didn't care for, so I decided to return his item. Another friend sitting in the middle was the middleman and gave the pencil back to my friend and kept the pencil for himself (apparently, it is "trolling" to him). To even fuck with me more, he threw me two stubby pencils. I returned the two pencils to him and demanded that he give me the pencil. After holding the pencil out at him for a few minutes, the teacher noticed and threatened a detention if we even made eye contact. Again, I must admit that this was my fault, but I told him something stupid, he said something back and he teacher noticed and gave him a detention. This is where the major incident begins. We had a lecture in genetics next period. Everytime we passed a slide, he would turn around and call me a "snitch". This happened over thirty to forty times and got extremely frustrating. A few other kids decided to kiss his ass and joined him. Every objection I made was beaten down by him and his group of assholes. Then, after getting pissed off, I wanted to rub it in his face that, sure, I am a "snitch", so I proclaimed to two people that he cut himself (which he did once with small scissors). They barely noticed my comment. He then goes on and telling two other people the girl who I admired, which I kept limited to a group of close people, including him. One his ass kissers told me straight to my face "to bad she'll never like you" and threatened to tell other people. (no trolling pl0x) at this comment, I had to keep a tear from blinking out of my eye. They noticed that too and spread the word about that. After school, I saw them downstairs. We had a small conversation and then out of no where, one of the people in that group says "close the door on this snitch" and slams the door on my face. As if that wasn't enough, one of them calls me a "snitch" on MSN right when I get on my computer. I tell him to piss off and he responds with "umad". I know this is extremely childish and whiny, but it was the best way I can put it. Do I need new friends?

TL;DR I was beaten down emotionally by my cruel friends. Any criticism or support are both welcomed. Apologies if this sounds awkward, I am typing this from an iPhone.

T

 

Cruel friends, or Only friends?

If any of my friends did that to me I'd get them in an arm lock and threaten to break it.

How long have they been your friend for?

 

They are not real friends if they do that. I used to be in a group that did this kinda shit and was the top dogs at school but I ended up going and just joining another group of friends that are actually real friends not fags. I've never been short of friends but remember that you can always just join someone in a class and end up becoming their friend and get into their friend group. If any of my friends did that, I'd fuck them up for it but they wouldn't because they are real friends.

 

Dude don't let them push you around physically or emotionally. I'd say "troll" them back and if they take it the wrong way then ditch them, or if they try to do anything to you just retaliate back and fight them.

Tl;dr Don't take crap from anyone and if necessary physically retaliate

P.S My friends used to tease me (When I used to wear a hat they would always take it off, etc) and I physically hurt one of them (9th Grade) and they don't do crap to me anymore. I hate to admit it but I'm one of the leaders in our "group" and they NEVER tease me anymore they tease eachother. They're good friends though lol

 

Uhm i would not call them guys 'friends' they are bullies.

 

Those are cruel friends, if I were you I would of straightened the kid that started all this up, so the others shut up after watching the person who they admire get beaten up so bad. You seriously need new friends man. Friends are people that have your back all the time. Not those that make fun of you and get other people involved.

 

They ain't true friends. Seriously, ditch them and find a new group or something.

 

just dont ever let them inside your house

 

Happened to me in high school.
Forget them.
They're fake.

Go be successful and make them feel envious about that instead of physically hurting them.

Why? Because the guilt of pushing you around stays forever.
A bruise or a broken bone can heal.

 

and you call them your friends? Open your eyes.. and search for other friends.. and dont think about it.. when you are a nice person you will meet a better friend..

 

This is so unfair. What you did wrong in the first place was nothing! And then they all gang up on you. These are bullies your talking about. I would try and find someone else in your class. Maybe start avoiding them a little and keeping quiet but try not to make it awkward. Hope you don't have this happen again.

 

Sorry I'm not sure if this is an option. Ever try standing up for yourself? I'm not trying to sound like a douche but have you tried to push them and act serious about it like you want them to stop? I'm not saying to fight those people if you can't do that. Just make sure they get the message. If not I would ignore them, look for a new group of friends. They obviously aren't your friends.

 

These people are idiots, you could fix it with violence but that has consequences. You should just ignore them and find new friends.

 

It's called your 12 and still in middle school. Honestly, toughen up and make fun of them. When you get to highschool, things change. Unless you're a little bitch.

 

People who act like that aren't friends but bullies.

My advice is to find new friends and not take shit from them. From time to time friends do overstep their bounds or tease each other but if it becomes uncomfortable, say so.

 

do you teast them back the same way? for instance me and my friends are the same way you describe will pit ourselfs to one another but just for the fck of it at the end of the day we all go chill afterschool as if nothing happend

 

But to tell you the truth, it's YOUR attitude that should change first.
Sure they are bullies and not your friends. But things would be different if you acted differently.

First of all, you should have given him back the pencil in the first place.
Second, you should've apologized to him when he was the only person to get into detention.
Third, you should've just shrugged off his snitch comments in the first place.
You shouldn't have agreed to the snitch comments, nor should you have said something about him cutting himself, which is pretty much useless when it's them against just you.

During these three incidents, you had:
loser and faggot written all over you.

YES you should find new friends. Like others above said, they are not your friends.

However, that will not stop their verbal abuse.
They will pick on you more, because it only looks like you are running away from a fight.

You must learn to make peace with them first and THEN decide whether they will be your friends or you will find new ones.

If you need any help, add me on msn [email protected]
I have been in your place and I am out of it. Don't be shy,
I insist
That's what bros are for.

 

Set up some type of realistic boundaries for yourself, if they go beyond them you can reasonably act irrational and set an example as to what happens when anyone goes too far with you. Nothing too extreme, but sometimes setting a reminder is a way to teach someone not to do something, as with animals.

 

I'm pretty popular, not to mention my 6"4 height, most people are scared of annoying me, because my bony knuckles, and my knowledge of where to punch on the arm, turns out to be very painful apparently.

 

I had a group of friends going into my first year of high school. Most of them lived in my neighborhood, so it was harder for me to avoid them. They were extremely immature and one in particular treated everyone and anyone like complete shit. He was funny and entertaining to be around, but most of the time he just took things way too far and never hesitated to speak whatever he wanted. Trust me, this kid was the worst of the worst. They got jealous that I was actually making friends and getting girls, so they went out of their way to make my life miserable. Whenever I would be talking to someone, they would come up and start acting like complete assholes saying the most disturbing things. I started to get annoyed, didn't want to be associated with them anymore, and began to slowly separate myself from them. I found a new group of friends along with a girl I started dating. They began spreading rumors about me and saying that my girlfriend was a slut and that she had cheated on me. Finally one day, they came to my lunch table and started talking shit. I told my girlfriend to leave and one of them told me to call my bitch back. Being young at the time, I got pissed and demanded to fight him after school and then left. As the day went on, things got out of hand and I decided that I wanted to kick the shit out of all of them and many other people wanted to join in. I told them to bring whoever they wanted and so would I. I waited outside of school with 10 of my friends and they never showed up. After that day, things calmed down a lot and they finally started to let up somewhat.

Years later, I was sitting in my car when the main one I hated at the time walked by. We talked for a few minutes and he apologized for everything. Since then, I've talked to all of them and they have all grown up a ton. One of them, I still talk to and even hang out with occasionally. You have to remember that high school is filled with drama. It's best to ignore it and get yourself away from it as fast as possible. Even to this day, I'm still shocked that someone who did some of the most inhumane things imaginable, actually turned into a decent human being. People really do grow up and change a lot.