idk what to do

Ive been seeing this girl for a few weeks now
If i text her first we can text for the entire day, if I dont do anything, nothing will be said until I text her again. I am finding this really frustrating but don't want to bring it up cause I know it will cause drama.

On top of this I only ever see her on the weekends pretty much and when I get to the party or whatever it is that she is at, we basically dont even talk to each other or anything until the end of the night it seems and then we just cuddle and what not. She seems to ignore me or is just really shy but it's so frustrating. I know she likes me cause she has said this to me and I have told her too but I just don't know what to do, it's impossible to converse with her it seems but I really like her. I just dont know what to do or how to make it not awkward.

any help guys? also we are both 18.

 

You should talk to HER about it,
bring it up in person, the more you seem interested in her
(ie; texting first, taking shit slow, taking her on dates)
the better off you'll be.

It seems like you're in a pretty good situation and
all you really need to do is make her feel wanted.

 

I totally agree with Glitch. Bringing it up early will always solve this and ease the inevitable talk about the topic. Maybe catch a cup of coffee together some day and just spill what's in your mind.

 

I suggest working your way into a deep and meaningful conversation with her. At first it can be a really light-hearted conversation. Believe me, any conversation given enough time will slowly evolve into a serious one. They always do. When it gets more serious try to bring up the topic of "us" (you and her in this case). Talk in a way to make her feel special- like the only girl in the whole world that matters. Hope this helps mate.

 

haha cheers guys, good stuff

just a thought id catch everyone up by letting you's know that I saw her today, she was with her girlfriends ofc like always but I get on fine with them so I suppose it doesnt really matter, but it went better then expected so anyways im taking her with me to a party tonight so wish me luck

 

Exactly what GIitch said, now grow a pair and talk to her about it!! Goodluck!