relationship problems

[Prada]

So I have a relationship bout to hit 1 year with this person together. We've never agreed to everything, but we were always happy. About 2 weeks ago one of her friends started texting me. She would flirt with me so I Played along. 2 weeks later She is asking when were having sex? Is this a free sex pass what would you guys do? I'm going to do whatever you guys decide .

 

[Coinshare]

If you had sex with her while you were still with your girl, obviously it's cheating (If you believe in boundaries you just crossed a big one).

You said you were happy but you fight a lot with your girl?
If you enjoy being happy and arguing then I'd say stay.

If you're looking for a reason to break up then go, you'll be free from the arguing and get a treat *Wink*.

Do you think it could be a set up/test between your girl and her friend? :s Or are they not like that?

Personally, I'd end it as I can't see your relationship getting any softer (Arguing).

Good luck

 

[Prada]

Thanks your answer really made me think a lot. Yes I questioned the setup thing a lot but they were never really cool questioned it with my girls cousin since shes best friends with that girl, but I don't think so. Yes we fight but don't all couples fight? Honestly I'm a hypocrite for being the one questioning her whereabouts I'm just happy I realized this before any major damage happened Cheers.

 

[Sanctuary]

If you're trying to ruin your relationship, then I'd say go for it.

 

[Daymare]

Do it but dump your girlfriend before hand. You already know the answer to your question simply because you asked here. If you truly liked your current girlfriend it wouldn't even be a question.

 

[Coinshare]

It's true all couples argue, but how fed up are YOU? If you're sick and tired of it, you know you have another option waiting .

Let us know what happens

Just don't regret your decision later. Cheers

 

[Shoop]

It could be a test played out by your girlfriend, think of that.

Get a friend to text you, see if your loyal or not.

 

[Way2Be]

I have had this happen to me before. My girlfriends best friend started texting me and wanted to hook up and do things. If you care about your girlfriend, ignore the messages, and I would tell your girlfriend. She is probably hoping you tell her to build trust. But in all honesty, if my GF ever did this to me again, I would walk away. That is a serious lack of trust.

 

[kmjt]

I think it's very awkward when a girl comes out and just asks you when your going to have sex with her.. if your not even in a relationship anyway. She sounds like she sleeps around a lot.

If your happy with your other girl, why ruin it?

 

[lunchboxx321]

ur about to cheat on ur girlfriend...ill do my best to speak facts without u feeling like im flaming but i feel strongly about this subject.

cheating is the most selfish and self-centered thing any person can do. the cheater does the act and the one cheated on gets to feel the pain from his/her actions. if uve been with this girl for a year theres obviously something there...why would u throw it away for a piece of ass? dont give into male hormones and screw up what u have. if u really want to do it then at least have the balls to break up with ur girl 1st, u at least owe her that respect, she doesnt deserve to be caught in the middle of ur hormones

 

[Hayd3nrox]

If you cheat, you're worthless and shouldn't feel good about yourself at all. Your girlfriend deserves more than that.

 

[Sheba888]

Whats more importent?

your girl/sex?

Pick