How to treat a girl this valentines?

I got this what you call, "unattractive" face, that no girl will ever go out on a date with me. But I'm a good person who treats people nicely. I met this girl, she's so beautiful, intelligent, has a cute voice, and I wanna ask her out on a date. Any of you veterans of love can teach me the ways?

This is serious matter. Well at least for me

 

This can be very hard.

You have to be confident & happy with yourself, find things about yourself that you love, and work on the things that you don't. When
it boils down to a relationship, your face isn't going to be the key factor holding a relationship together. Asking a girl out on a date
can be very intimidating due to the fear of rejection.

What you need to do is have a happy confident structure & ask her out on a date.

It can be very hard, but literally saying "I'd like to ask you on a date" can be so heart warming and nice of a way to do it.

 

this is lowkey heartwarming. well, having an answer even if she says no still better than not asking her out. Good luck to me I'll post something this valentines if I asked her out and take a picture of her

 

That's right.

To put it in perspective, the majority of my younger life I was very unhappy, though, I did have quite a few female friends. When I
was younger I considered myself unattractive, and had an attitude towards myself literally the same as you.

"I have great qualities & I'm a great person but I don't think any girls will date me"

Eventually, I asked a girl, she said no.
So did the next few that I was interested in.

Then, one day, I was working somewhere and this girl was talking to me quite a bit and she was super nice to me. We became
instant friends, and after a week or so I asked her on a date and she said yes.

In my opinion, it's important to have your intentions known sooner than later. If you're friends with a girl for 6 months, and you
have had a crush on her for 5 of those 6 months, it's going to be horrible to hear a no, or see them with another guy.

If you flat out start asking girls on dates on the regular and getting rejected, it won't bother you.
If you know a girl for a week and ask her on a date and she says no, it hurts less.
Being rejected after months of friendship hurts the most, try to avoid this as it can be depressing af & awkward and potentially
cost you a friendship.

 

She's my classmate and she doesn't know I had a crush on her :l But I wanna commit this valentines to her hopefully it goes well

 

I would ask her out as soon as possible.

I would mention you would love to give her a Valentine's day that is worth remembering.

 

We had a great night together. Best days I had so far since I got to college. We talked and hang out, tho she already had a boyfriend of 2 months already. She accepted my request. She was also happy when I asked her out so I was also happy. She was gonna celebrate with his boyfriend but it's a long distance relationship between them and yeah being a good sport I respect her decision of just being friends and not go far beyond that I didnt expect any but rejection, but glad I got the guts to do this so ^_^



Happy Valentines people <3

 

Friendzoned before you even realise it.

 

Who knows... Long distance relationships dont last and his boyfriend is a f*ckboy - said some of my friends who knew him also

 

HIS boyfriend....?? I’m confused

 

I meant her* sorry for the typo lol.

 

Spit on her brothers she doesn’t know the way.

 

Is that a type of girlfriend you would want?

She invites other dudes to drink with her on the couch cuz her bf isn’t around?

Granted she said you two would only be friends, but you’re currently working as her «back up». Girls do this thing called «monkey branching», its not speculation it’s a fact, they need to have a mate at all times to reproduce.

You may like it, you may not. But what is stopping her from doing the same thing to you if you were to get togheter? Idk, I wouldn’t want to have a girlfriend like that.

Be a real dude, don’t mown another dudes lawn.

 

nah. I respect their relationship. It's just so unfair for her boyfriend that's known as a f boy. She was nice and her boy isn't. I've changed my mind about her tho. I am searching or waiting for someone who I really want to spend my life with.