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You're the one proclaiming me the hero.

This is true.

She isn't looking to kill herself either, she's doing it to escape something she doesn't know how to handle. How am I not a suitable person to do the saving?

 

I had a buddy who brought a girl off the street from Montreal to Ottawa. He found her there and thought she needed help (which she does), and he brought her to his place and kept her fed, etc. She was a good looking girl, a stripper. But the fact is, she was not interested in getting help. She appreciated the free food and the place to stay, but she wasn't going to change her entire lifestyle just because he helped her out. Within a few weeks she was right back where she started.

It's important to realize that although you may feel like your intentions are good, the odds are that having sex with her and trying to have heart to heart conversations aren't the cure for her problems. She will likely always have deep mental issues. Professionals who are paid 6 figures have enough trouble making progress with patients, so to expect to be the knight in shining armor that saves the day is not only unrealistic, but a tad egotistical.

 

Egotistical? You can't be serious.

First of all, you can only provide on story of when this "knight in shining armour" technique has failed. I'm sure there are countless stories where the one in trouble has benefited from it, i'm not sure exactly how the statistics stack up though.

Before I go off on a wall of text; just to be sure, you're saying because i'm not a six figure professional, I should just let her life spiral down to rock bottom without attempting to lend a helping hand, especially to a girl with such beauty and promise?

 

Are you really offering a helping hand? If she said she was not interested in anything sexual, and was having sex with somebody else, would you still care as much about helping her? Or do you see her weakness as an opportunity? Take a second and seriously think about it.

 

Yes I really am, i'm hormonal; it is natural. Hormonal does NOT equal uncaring or ruthless. She hasn't said she's interested in anything sexual to this day and I still continue to talk to her, what more proof can I offer you? If she was having sex with someone else, of course i'd be jealous...but it would not ruin our friendship by any means. Perhaps the guy she's having sex with is who you're describing; ruthless,only in it for sex, taking advantage, etc. I'd care just as much about helping her if not more.

Took over a day to think about it, these are honest answers my friend.

 

HAHAHAHAHAA.

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Too much drama, and when you break up, you don't want that phonecall from her where all you hear is the sound of her taking a lot of pills. They're usually pretttyyy unstable.

You're a dumbass then.
Why do you care about her drug usage if you just want to hit it and quit it?
Shouldn't worry about what she does if you just want sex.


In response to your asinine thread; Pain pills, can be highly addictive if used on a daily bases for a bit. Downer, or opiate. Relaxes you.

By what you've said she's a recreational user, if that. It's not a problem, it's just her having a bit of fun.

You don't become addicted off of using a drug once; life isn't an above the influence commercial. Using it on the weekends gives your body a whole 5-6 days to detox itself and not create a dependency.