Needing help getting back with a old girlfriend...

[AfterLyfe]

There is a very long and dramatic story behind this, I promise you that, but this is the extremely shortened version....

About 3 months ago I was threatened and blackmailed to break up with a girl I dated for about a 2 years, by her mom. Her excuse was that she wanted her daughter to focus more on school, although she has always hated me for reasons I don't understand. I've been going through hell lately missing her, I have not had any contact with her as her mom took her cell, and checks her facebook and email regularly (forced me to be blocked on facebook). I've missed her so much... its almost indescribable to be honest....

So today I decided I have to try to act... if for no reason else, I need to talk to her, without her (in turn her mom) having any idea its me.... I know this is breaking her moms trust, but she threatened and blackmailed me and I no longer have any respect for her because of it.

I am making a facebook not relating to me at all, but before I add her... I need a lot of other friends first... please help me get back with my girlfriend.... I promise I will not spam you or anything from the facebook page you add of mine..


The facebook page.


Feel free to post..

 

[kmjt]

How is her mother blackmailing you? Do you have any idea why her mom doesn't like you?

Explain your facebook plan.. exactly how do you plan on communicating with the girl? Will she know that Frank Moses is you?

 

[AfterLyfe]

How is her mother blackmailing you? Do you have any idea why her mom doesn't like you?

Explain your facebook plan.. exactly how do you plan on communicating with the girl? Will she know that Frank Moses is you?

She threatened me with some things from my past that can be legally held against me, nothing major, but still illegal. I have no idea how she found out such things. And I have no idea on that either.

I hope not, but the general plan is to get a lot of random friends, then add her that way I try to look un-suspicious as possible.

 

[Matt Hasty]

I'm sorry but I'm just gonna say that even if you like this girl her mother obviously has a lot of control over her. She probably makes her life a living hell and you in the picture could make that hell ten times more worse.

This isn't suppose to sound mean but she's probably better off without you. Let her focus on school so she can graduate and get the hell out of there. Find a nother girl and don't fall in love next time. High school relationships never last and if they do you both just end up with a lot of regrets and sorrow.


(talking for experince)

 

[AfterLyfe]

I'm sorry but I'm just gonna say that even if you like this girl her mother obviously has a lot of control over her. She probably makes her life a living hell and you in the picture could make that hell ten times more worse.

This isn't suppose to sound mean but she's probably better off without you. Let her focus on school so she can graduate and get the hell out of there. Find a nother girl and don't fall in love next time. High school relationships never last and if they do you both just end up with a lot of regrets and sorrow.


(talking for experince)

I have been told this before. I won't lie its probably for the better but I won't over analyze it.

I am the definition of a hopeless romantic lol.

 

[red0roses]

If the mother will allow you two to be just friends, then hang out with her and when you all graduate in a few yrs you can start dating again. If not utterly sick of each other by that time =X

 

[Punchy]

Black mail is illegal fyi. But I had a relationship like this before. I was 17 turning 18 and my gf at the time was 16. At first we were allowed to date; we dated for 1 1/2 yrs. I was 16ish and she was 15, but since I was turning 18 her mom didnt like it and made us stop dating. We were about a year and 4 months apart. At first we just used facebook/myspace to talk I made a fake one like your doing now to talk but she caught onto it. So we started to sneak around. She would sneak out at 12am and go back into the house at 4am. I also bought her a tracphone(those prepaid ones with just texting) because her mom took her phone. She found that after about 3 months of using it so I would sleep in her room on certain school nights until 5am and then sleep in her walk-in closet; because her mom left for work at 6am and ussualy walked into her room to wake her up. Eventually that stopped working because her mom randomly just happen to see a FUCKING deer outside one of the windows so she had to run and wake my gf up to show her the fucking deer out of her window...and she heard me snoring lightly in her closet and flipped like shit. (and I was sleeping naked because it gets extremely hot in a closet during the summer that has no ventilation). So yeah that was the scariest thing ever... your gfs mom walking into a closet while your sleeping naked and you wake up to her staring at you... So she took her door away from her room and had a sheet hanging from were her door was lol. so i didnt sleep over anymore. anyways idk why i just told you all of this, but maybe something that i did will work for you if you love her dont stop, it didnt stop me and we are engaged now shes 19 now though so we are a bit older
4 1/2 years and strong! dont stop man. pm me if you want

 

[stankinrange]

I'm sorry but I'm just gonna say that even if you like this girl her mother obviously has a lot of control over her. She probably makes her life a living hell and you in the picture could make that hell ten times more worse.

This isn't suppose to sound mean but she's probably better off without you. Let her focus on school so she can graduate and get the hell out of there. Find a nother girl and don't fall in love next time. High school relationships never last and if they do you both just end up with a lot of regrets and sorrow.


(talking for experince)

How do you think the girl feels that her boyfriend broke up her and she probably doesn't know why and cannot contact him? That's pretty shitty.

It's crude to say highschool relationships don't last- that's bullshit. I know a bunch of them don't last but theres still plenty that do, no need to make him feel anymore lower than he already is right now, I know a few couples from highschool that have either gotten married or will someday soon, it's really not a rare occurance. I'm not trying to bash you either, just stating my opinion on that.


I'll add ya bro, unless it's really something that's gonna fuck you like burglery or something of that nature that she has sure proof of than you should be sneaky, if not than do your thing and disregard her mom as shitty as that is. There really isn't much she can do to get you in trouble if it's in the past unless she has you doing something terrible or camera, follow your heart mane and get the girl, if you really love her you'll find a way to be with her- you guys may not be able to together right now but let her know whats going and reassure your feelings to her when you talk to her, let her know how much you really care. Thats what really matters.

 

[AfterLyfe]

If the mother will allow you two to be just friends, then hang out with her and when you all graduate in a few yrs you can start dating again. If not utterly sick of each other by that time =X

I plan on trying this... but I don't know how long it will take

Black mail is illegal fyi. But I had a relationship like this before. I was 17 turning 18 and my gf at the time was 16. At first we were allowed to date; we dated for 1 1/2 yrs. I was 16ish and she was 15, but since I was turning 18 her mom didnt like it and made us stop dating. We were about a year and 4 months apart. At first we just used facebook/myspace to talk I made a fake one like your doing now to talk but she caught onto it. So we started to sneak around. She would sneak out at 12am and go back into the house at 4am. I also bought her a tracphone(those prepaid ones with just texting) because her mom took her phone. She found that after about 3 months of using it so I would sleep in her room on certain school nights until 5am and then sleep in her walk-in closet; because her mom left for work at 6am and ussualy walked into her room to wake her up. Eventually that stopped working because her mom randomly just happen to see a FUCKING deer outside one of the windows so she had to run and wake my gf up to show her the fucking deer out of her window...and she heard me snoring lightly in her closet and flipped like shit. (and I was sleeping naked because it gets extremely hot in a closet during the summer that has no ventilation). So yeah that was the scariest thing ever... your gfs mom walking into a closet while your sleeping naked and you wake up to her staring at you... So she took her door away from her room and had a sheet hanging from were her door was lol. so i didnt sleep over anymore. anyways idk why i just told you all of this, but maybe something that i did will work for you if you love her dont stop, it didnt stop me and we are engaged now shes 19 now though so we are a bit older
4 1/2 years and strong! dont stop man. pm me if you want

Thanks that story actually made me have a bit of hope....

How do you think the girl feels that her boyfriend broke up her and she probably doesn't know why and cannot contact him? That's pretty shitty.

It's crude to say highschool relationships don't last- that's bullshit. I know a bunch of them don't last but theres still plenty that do, no need to make him feel anymore lower than he already is right now, I know a few couples from highschool that have either gotten married or will someday soon, it's really not a rare occurance. I'm not trying to bash you either, just stating my opinion on that.


I'll add ya bro, unless it's really something that's gonna fuck you like burglery or something of that nature that she has sure proof of than you should be sneaky, if not than do your thing and disregard her mom as shitty as that is. There really isn't much she can do to get you in trouble if it's in the past unless she has you doing something terrible or camera, follow your heart mane and get the girl, if you really love her you'll find a way to be with her- you guys may not be able to together right now but let her know whats going and reassure your feelings to her when you talk to her, let her know how much you really care. Thats what really matters.

Trust me, its something almost every teenager who uses a computer does. Thank you

 

[stankinrange]

get blackmail on her, then you win.

 

[ilovetotrade]

I'm sorry but I'm just gonna say that even if you like this girl her mother obviously has a lot of control over her. She probably makes her life a living hell and you in the picture could make that hell ten times more worse.

This isn't suppose to sound mean but she's probably better off without you. Let her focus on school so she can graduate and get the hell out of there. Find a nother girl and don't fall in love next time. High school relationships never last and if they do you both just end up with a lot of regrets and sorrow.


(talking for experince)

My mom and dad met eachother on highschool.

Goodluck with this mate wish you all the best.

 

[uselesspoop]

sent a request, goodluck dude.

i know its more logical and practical for you to actually leave and forget about her. but i say if you really really really love her, go for it!

 

[AfterLyfe]

Thank you so far . and if you have friends that might add me please ask them to!

 

[okkk]

You need to calmly approach the mom and sort this out. Talk to her (even if it seems impossible) and tell her how much her daughter means to her. If a boy that was dating my daughter (..i dont REALLY have one..>.>) did that even if I hate him, Id still probably let them see eachother. If that doesnt work, then tell her that she cant stop true love, chase your girl, and just have fun. But seriously, try the first thing :]

 

[AfterLyfe]

Needing more adds please...

 

[jizzownya]

You can get more friends if you go to the fan page/forum of a facebook game that you benefit from having "groups" (Like for this one game, Elven Blood, the more people that joined your army, the more you could accomplish in a game). Ask around, pretend you play a game, and are looking for people to join your group, gang, etc.

You've talked a lot about yourself and the mom, but has the girl done anything? It's possible she and her mom are doing this because she, herself, doesn't want to be with you and just doesn't know how to break up with you. (It's a possibility, don't rule it out).

Exactly why is the mom black mailing you? If you were negatively affecting her daughter's schoolwork, then she has every right to be concerned (if you're under age). Maybe if you could show that if her daughter is with you, she is more relaxed/happy and, in turn, does better in school.

 

[xclnt]

Make a facebook with a name like:

James Cook

and she wont know its you if you talk on the chat, you can just exit the convo!

 

[Dial]

I'm sorry but I'm just gonna say that even if you like this girl her mother obviously has a lot of control over her. She probably makes her life a living hell and you in the picture could make that hell ten times more worse.

This isn't suppose to sound mean but she's probably better off without you. Let her focus on school so she can graduate and get the hell out of there. Find a nother girl and don't fall in love next time. High school relationships never last and if they do you both just end up with a lot of regrets and sorrow.


(talking for experince)

I'm sorry, but this isn't true at all.

My mom and dad met each other in high school, and they're been married now for over 20 years. Also, my uncle met a girl in highschool, and they dated, and broke up, and he married another lady (my aunt), and then they got a divorce, and he met back up with the first girl and they're getting married later this year.

High school relationships do last.