Need input on a arguement.

Okay, I just want to see if people think I have a reason to be mad about this.

My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year, I know she would never cheat or anything. She is known as the nicest person in our school, she can never be mean. Recently this guy asked for her number, and she gave it to him, not a big deal for me. After about 2 weeks, he is texting her like non stop. I told her "You know hes just texting you because he wants to get with you" she didn't believe me. So about 3 weeks ago he texted her "I like you, alot ". I got pissed, I told her to tell him that he needs to stop. She says "okay okay I'll tell him"...Look at her phone, and she sent "I don't like you ".


If you said "I like you alot" and a girl replied "I don't like you " how would you take it? It started pissing me off that she said that. I haven't talked about it, but I mention it all the time. The kid is talking to her constantly, basically more than I can talk to her.

Do you guys think I have a reason to be mad? I don't like being mad at her, and I usually just push it off to the side, but it's getting bad lately. I feel like im just venting off my anger by posting on here lol.

 

So you're mad because she did exactly what you told her to do which is tell him she doesn't like him?

 

I'm mad at the way she said it.
"I don't like you ".
He took it as flirty. I talked to 4 or 5 of my friends, and they agreed that they would take it the same way.

 

I can totally see where your coming from. This is a bad situation so I think you are justified in your anger. You should have a really serious talk with her and basically say im not the jealous type and don't care if you have guy friends. But when a guy talks and texts you more then I do and tells you he likes you then thats when I draw the line. I know you guys are probably good friends now but you need to tell him you have a bf and this is starting to cross the line and you only see him as a friend. Tell her honestly that its really bothering you and how its something important. Then go up to him and be honest and basically tell him to back off.

It may sound crazy bro but you gotta stop this before its to late. You don't want to get the "I don't like/ have feelings for you anymore" breakup from her and then you watch her get with him. Trust me you'll be pissed and feel like shit.

 

Well shes just being nice. If your put -.- instead of thats rlly bitchy

 

I think she shouldn't have used a face at all, and didn't reply to some of his texts after that.

It all comes down to how confident you are in her loyalty...

Perhaps it's time you scare this kid yourself?

 

Putting myself in that guy's position, I would feel pretty awkward if a girl said that to me. I wouldn't take it as a flirtatious message, honestly.

I think you should drop it.

 

I feel the same. I would just quit texting her unless i was honestly interested in being her friend.

 

^^ Yeah, it comes down to if she kept replying to his texts or not.

If she has then yeah, I'd be a little peeved.
If not no worries ^.^

 

You have nothing to worry about, you said it yourself, she is the nicest girl in your school and she was just trying to lay it to him easy while being nice.

 

Tell him yourself to stop talking to her, I think it would work better.

 

It sounds like she's playing hard to get with him. If she genuinly likes this guy more than you then you should finish it, It won't work. If she doesn't then you have to get it into the guys head if the girl won't listen, Talk to him explain how you feel, if he's an asshole then sort it out more hands on.

You could always say 'It's either me or him' Wouldn't suggest that but if everything else fails.

They may just be good friends, Who knows? I'd personally kick the fuck out of the guy, Unless he was a 8ft tall pro kick boxer that is. If he knows she has a boyfriend he's basically willing to make her a cheat, That enough should deserve a hit. If he doesn't know then i supose it's not his fault it's hers for leading him on. It's a tough one mate.

 

Just let her talk to him. If he persists, confront him and tell him to lay off a bit.

It's okay for your girl to have guy friends, and it's okay if they want her. Just make it clear that you two are together.

 

I'm not scared of her having guy friends. It would be hypocritical, as most my friends are girls. Most of her guy friends are gay, or are good friends with me, so I'm not worried.

And he has it stuck in his head that since she said that, and still talks to him 24/7 he has a chance. She is really clueless, she doesn't know when someone is being nice, or hitting on her.

I had a talk with her the other day, she agreed to 'tone it down' and make sure he understands he has no chance. We'll see how that goes.

 

Just go up to him and say she has a boy friend so fork and knife off, also add what ever else you want in there