Need help REALLY badly

[naggiii]

To be honest with you, if she already changed her relationship status to "In a relationship," you have a problem. I don't know your age, but 'kids' nowadays (you know what I mean by kids), tend to do that sort of thing on a somewhat regular basis. By changing her relationship status before you even asked her out and you only went on one "date," that shows she's very clingy. The last thing you want is a clingy girlfriend. What I would do is tell her that you aren't ready for such a commitment, and you like to ease into things. If she really likes you, she'll understand. Hang out with her a few more times just as friends to find out if YOU like HER, or if you just were seeking that "physical" sort of relation. I know just hanging out as friends can be dangerous and you can become "friend-zoned," but it's the only way to find out. Rushing into things isn't the answer, and you should never feel obligated to commit to something you don't feel right about. You don't want to rush yourself into things, and you don't want to jump into something you're not sure about; that'll just end up hurting her in the long run as well.

 

[TheGoon]

Well I'm talking to her about it tomorrow, she seems to be completely fine with the fact that I never accepted the request and is totally open to discuss it with me. Don't get me wrong though, first sign of crazy and I'm outta there

Kissing then going inside and requesting a relationship change without any prior warning? and only after a week??? :huh: :huh: :huh: :huh:


Sounds kinda crazy -_-

 

I just went ahead and did it. I don't really know what was up with me earlier this week, maybe it was stress, but after I started feeling better again I started to have some pretty strong feelings for her. Looks like she's my new girlfriend and I'm pretty happy about it Thanks for the help everyone, I'm going to go ahead and close this now.