Banned for problem with mehike - Pen read please.

Well, firstly, mehike and I are in a situation where neither of us have proof of sending or recieving money. He does believe I sent him the money, just problems not recieving.

I did tell him I sent £300 to him, which was a bit less than agreed on, and I sent the rest via WU.

http://sythe.org/showthread.php?t=489094

"In addition he claimed to have sent a significant amount of cash less than we agreed on (around 55£ less), which he a couple of weeks! later finally sent me via WU"

"Now I'm not saying that he scammed me, I believe that he did actually send the money, but it may have got lost or rejected by the toll."

"He however refuses, arguing I could have received the money and be simply lying."

If this fails dispute fails, mehike has offered to end the deal with me sending him £150 via WU (he will recieve £130, £20 is deducted from fees), he said this is fine. Pen, I was just wondering, since I don't want to resort to this, if my dispute fails, I will pay him this amount to end the problem, if this allowed? If I have payment of proof of sending this money.

 

After re-reading the screenshots, I think you didn't sent the money.

1. You sent the money via mail, when it was requested that it be sent via WU - It's very hard to get these two things mixed up, especially after mehike stated that they don't allow money to be mailed in Estonia.
2. You said you didn't leave a return address
3. You claimed that you sent it, and then later claimed that your dad sent it for you.

It's funny how large amounts of cash in the mail always gets lost, while small amounts don't >_>. Not talking about this trade in particular, just something I've noticed during my stay on Sythe.

I'll let you reply to this post, and then I'll make my final decision.