Need advice on how to ask a girl out :s

Sex is the benefit of a relationship, it's not what the relationship revolves around. :\

And if you haven't asked already, given the responses you gave after my last post, you still need to tell her how you feel and tell her straight up that you don't want it to effect your friendship with her but that you felt you needed to tell her.

 

i was going to ask her today but i hardly saw her tommorow ill ask her when i walk her home

 

Mac, I'm in the same situation as you. I know a girl (been in love with her for 5-6 years) I told her through a text how I felt but Idk how she responded. I feel like I'm the fucking king of men when I'm around her, but I also feel like a scared child. If I had the choice to save my family or her, honestly, she would come first. I told her that I'd give her the fucking world. I've never directly asked her out though.....I'm afraid of an awkward situation. She's really flirty, not just with me, but with a lot of guys, but she's prude too so I know she won't run around fucking everyone. She's different when she's with me though. She makes me feel like I'm the only guy she needs. We've spent countless "romantic" times together haha. Constantly at the movies, holding hands, I've spent night after night at her house after she had her tonsils out to just give her some company. She loved it. I've heard stories that she told her mom she's totally in love with me but is afraid to act upon it. After reading your story I was like "fuck! haha, this poor kid knows what it's like!" I've decided though, that if your story ends well, I'm going to ask her out and just let her know how I feel. Here's to us, and to hopefully being lucky to get the girls of our dreams!

Ps....sorry to type a fucking novel in your thread lmao.

 

Good luck man. Don't fear rejection!

 

i dont fear rejection its just the fact that i dont wanna lose her as a friend or that things wont be the same between us after this.

 

I think people are missing your point, Mac. like I said, I'm in the same boat. I dont care if she says no, at least you'd know how she felt. I haven't even attempted to make a move on her out of complete fear of never talking to her again.

 

haha finally someone in my position..... its kind of difficult right? idk wat to do ive met her parents before been to her and her sister b-day party like twice.... i thin its a good thing but idk....

 

im best friends with her brother, her mom too. Our families are literally best friends....almost like we belong as a big family. Yes, it's VERY difficult. Even to ATTEMPT to explain the situation is hard. It's one of those things where people would have had to have been around you every time you were together to understand. Her mom even told her I'm the best thing that could happen to her. Sometimes I wonder if I'm just overthinking the situation, but I can't help it. I know that there is always the possibility of being told no, but I feel like I would just completely withdraw from the world...THAT's how much I love her :\

 

WELL MY PARENTS DONT KNOW HER PARENTS AT ALL BUT ive met them and her brother and sisters, the sad thing is she is 17 and i am 16. she turns 18 in dec and i turn 17 in april i think its a big age difference but idk man. Its ind of dfficult ive askd other friends who see me and her everyday and most of them say "YALL SHould go out" or 'ask her out" its difficult when alot of people we both know are telling me to ask her but idk. agh i hate my lie

 

haha...well I'm 18, gonna be 19 in 10 days, she's 18 as well. The age doesn't really matter in my opinion. It's just one of those things were, as much as you think about it, it just has to be done.

 

true true..... to bad i broke my phone or i would be texting her right now. She lets me use her phone whenever i want. i can tell her give me your phone for the whole day and she would let me keep it. I think i have all the trust i can have from her

 

Sounds like it. haha like I said, if your story ends well, I'm gonna finally grow some balls and tell my girl (Emily) how I feel lol.

 

haha gl

 

If you already do so much stuff together, I don't think "asking her out" is the way to go. You should just try a kiss and see what happens.

 

Swee, you're a moron. you've been no help. You think all relationships are about sex. Mac....how did it go? lol.

 

Awesome she said yes and we walked home from school, (like 4 miles lol) and we made out infront of her house for like 5 mins it was awkward but worth it

 

haha. guess it's time for me to step up :\ Super nervous haha, but next time I see her I'll let her know. How did you soften her up, or did you just ask her straight away? lol.

 

Just ask to blow the cock and then get carried away have sex for 3 hours pull off the condom get her prego and bam connected for life

 

Topgunner, that's what I thought haha. Knock her up then she has no choice

 

LOL

heres wat happen...

We went to school as usual and we have to go through metal detectars but we decided to go around to skip that and one of her teachers saw us but said nothin. We kept going and eventually got inside of the school skipping all the detection shit. I went to a room to talk to my teacher and there were a bunch of guys there looking at her and whispering "is she with him" or w/e she laughed and held my hand. I was thinkin "this is good " The bell rang and we seperated and i only see her 2 times during the day. Those 2 times she just smiled at me. At the end of the day i ran to the bus because it gets ultra full and she was one of the last ones. She sat next to me and her friend got on but there was no seats left so she sat on my lap . We got off at the first house on the bus route (we are the last people to get off) So i decided to walk her home again. On the way i kept thinkin whether or not to ask her. We just walked for 4 miles just talking like regular friends. When we got to her house i was about to ask her all i got to say was "Will you..." and she got on me and kissed me. She took out a marker and wrote her number on my arm. After i left i couldve swore i saw her mom looking at me. When i got home my parents took me to get a new phone and i started texting her. We texted till like 3 in the morning but she got sleepy and fell asleep on me. It was awesome cant believe i waited so long just to ask her. SetYourGoals just go for it bro.