(Girls) Not Ready (Girls)

Okay , So i never have a problem with getting girls what so ever i could probley pick and choose any girl in my school that i want .

BUTT , there is this one girl its my Ex-Girlfriend that i spent 2 years of my life withs friend. We been talking for like 2 weeks now and i found out she had a boyfriend while we were talking and didnt tell me , but she told me it was only because she was scared to lose me , but anyway she broke up with him because i said that was pretty much bull shit that she didnt tell mee and all . So now were still talking and hanging out i just took her to fireworks the other day and all , Im totally commited to this girl and have VERY strong feelings for this girl and she says she has them for me also , but she keeps telling me she is not ready for a boyfriend and a doesnt know if she wants to be with me cuz i guess i got the (Player) status ,

Idk wether to X this girl or to Keep talking to her and wait it out.... please help guys i would appriciate it , thanks !

 

I think for starters, your ego isn't really helping you. No girl likes a guy who thinks the world of himself. Also, I get the feeling you're going for a girl who has only 'half the package' --looks.

Anyhow, my advice: I'd take her out a few places, to the park, restaurant, or perhaps her favourite place? should you know it, then, say in a months time, explain how you feel and ask her if she's ready.

If you really have strong feelings for her, then why would you just leave it?

 

Your ego annoys the hell out of me.

Drop your ego, and learn that you're worth nothing in this world. You are shallow as hell, but hey who isn't in some cases. The fact that she had a boyfriend while messing around with you is fucked up on her part, and judging from that, I would get away from her because she could, and will, do the exact same thing to you.

Her character is shit, so find someone else.

 

Pretty much have to agree with the guy above me on every point. She can't trust you because of your history, but she acted very untrustworthy with you. In any case you're not helping yourself, and neither is she.

 

Stay away from her. She was in a relationship and she got close with you. If you think correctly, she MIGHT do that to you when you 2 are couples.

 

I think you need to look at life in a more humble respective. You'd be surprise in what you can see. If she was unfaithful to her last boyfriend to be with you, don't you think it could just easily happen to you? If you're going to pursue her and know she is going to remain faithful, go for it. What should you stray away from is your player status. If you want to get real and stay true to one girl, drop the player status.

 

Well first you shud try to ask her to be a
benificary friend / friend with benefits
meaning
not gf / bf but same as it without the title
and work your way from there
see where it takes you.

 

I'd say move on, forget her and the past. Start up a fresh, drop the ego and a find the perfect one.

 

Your ego sucks.
Your attitude sucks.

She was talking to you while she had a boyfriend, big whoop. If you cared so much, you would tell her current boyfriend.


Like you said "Okay , So i never have a problem with getting girls what so ever i could probley pick and choose any girl in my school that i want ."
Go get a new one.


Out of curiosity, how old are you?

 

I have a similar ego problem... but my friends and girlfriends don't have a problem with it (you'd have to see me IRL to grasp it) but... I've been with this type of girl before... you don't want her.

Think about it... she was with a guy and getting it on with you on the side, what's so different about you that will make her not do it again?

Once a cheater, always a cheater. Basically >.>

 

Gained nothing from that, lol and girlfriend(s)?

 

Yeah, I was just typing like a crazy person, don't mind me!

More often than not, I make no sense at all =p.

 

Pretty sure that answers your question right there.

 

The first line in your post makes me look down on you. Really think it is a pathetic statement.

Why does my spider-senses tell me your only 15.

Also if you really like her, wait it out. See what happens.

Or go look for another girl because you can get whichever girl you want. Because you know, you get them all, correct?

 

Her statement seems to be dead on about you having player status.


If you really care about this girl, then keep playing it out. Don't single her out so soon, just because she doesn't want a boyfriend. If this girl is really worth more than meaningless sex, then wait it out, and play your cards right.

 

Don't wait it out. Same shit happened to me. I waited for two girls previously and they both just walked away. Waste of time. When a girl says she "isn't ready" or some bullshit you most likely won't get with her.

 

Fuck relationships until your older man, you sound young so have fun while you can

 

you sound like my junior,

i played the hell outta every girl now im stuck in a relationship that she said wouldn't happen. it was amazing for 3 months, shit the remainder.

go figure.

 

1: YOU aren't ready for a relationship if your ego is that big.
2: Women like that WILL kick you in the balls. Several people here, including me, know that much from experience.
3: Blind dedication will only hurt you more when things go wrong. Strength in a relationship is built up over time, so showing that much dedication will only be your own undoing.
4: You think you "love" her, but you can't respect HER wishes, nor want to have much to do with her if she declines you. Clearly though I doubt you'd admit it, you're in lust, not love.

 

The way you talk about women is so disrespectful. Come on dude I'm 15 and I have never been so arrogant or disrespectful to women.
As said your ego is annoying and you probably just want girls for show