Im gonna break someones neck. Please read....

Ok.

So here it is.

I have a sister, who's 18, and she got an amazing score for her graduation for university. Now, she is a BITCH. Every single time I get to do something or get something she wants or doesnt want me to have/shes jealous she goes to my parents and, i dont even know, goes and complains somehow and continuously lectures to them of how corrupt I am. In fact heres a story: I got a new xbox yeah, and its summer, 2 month holiday, aced maths and science in school (got a+ in both, aiming for an engineer when im older), and my sister goes to my parents and says, "Oh he failed everyone gets an A+, and people his age (Im 16) will study all of summer to do good the following year. He shouldnt be allowed his xbox because he will fail his VCE's (aussie curriculum). Etc. etc.". Guess what, my parents said "YEAH YOURE RIGHT bla bla bla" and took my xbox and im only allowed to play for 2 hours a week during summer. I mean seriously, did they just believe my sister in every word she said? A+ in maths and science is bad? At this point I was like pissed. Pissed I couldnt game.

Anyway. So my phone broke, and I went to get the new iphone 4S, and my parents were fine with me getting a phone. You know, it was all fine and great. So we went to the mall to go get a $59 plan over 24 months for it, and guess fucking what. My sister comes in and says, "Nonono he'll fail his VCE if you get him an iphone. Bla bla". I was like, "Gtfo im getting one whats your problem". Right at that moment, my parents went, "Yeah you're right. He'll fail school and mess on it all day", and got my sister one instead of me. I was fucking flaming. She did this because she was jealous I was getting the new iphone and she want, and somehow she ended up getting one and not me.

A week ago, my parents took away my pc i spent a lot of money on, because AGAIN, of my sisters remarks. I didnt even bother arguing because I i knew my parents would listen to every word she says. However, my dad was being nice and said i could use his laptop if i needed to, so I was in a way fine.

The other day I was on Sythe, facebook and all that on my dads laptop. My sister decided it'd be cool she checked all the history on my dads laptop and tracked everything I did and tried blackmailing me with it all. She constantly calls my best friends bad influences and all this, just because they play COD and game regularly. I mean, do I not even get privacy?

Just now, I got off the laptop after playing some CSS and WoW, and my sister thought it'd be funny if she went on and started uninstalling my games and all programs which I had installed on my hard disk. 38gb of games were uninstalled. I mean WOW REALLY? I went up to the laptop and saw she was in the history tab again and I demanded to see what she was looking, up and she refused in a rude way, so I grabbed the laptop to check and she pulled it away and smacked the screen down and the top left of the laptop was left with this black spot. My mum came around, and I explained what happened honestly, "She was deleting all my things from my personal hard disk and was checking my history". Did my mum believe me over my sisters story of, "I was on Facebook and he came up randomly and started grabbing the laptop because hes an addict"? No. She didnt believe me. She started calling me names and so did my sister. Now my dads gonna come home and ILL BE THE ONE IN TROUBLE AGAIN FOR SOMETHING THATS NOT MY FAULT. I went and broke a vase because I was so pissed off, and Im in even more trouble.

What can I do guys? It seems my sister wins in every situation because shes had her chance to shine in studies. I still got 2 years left and my parents wont even give me a chance. I cant enjoy shit at all without my sister interferring. She hasnt even got any friends. My parents are constantly swearing and calling me things no one would dare calling someone else. I get pissed at times and swear back because seriously, I have no say in anything. I mean, when I am playing xbox, my sister randomly goes off and turns the internet off and on and walks past me smiling as if its a funny joke, and when i go tell my dad what she does, they go "Good. You shouldnt play at all."

From the start of summer ive had my ps3, xbox and pc taken away from me. Ive had all social activity taken away from me. Its always my fault when it really isnt. Im referred to as a retarded, useless, worthless person whos a thief. And all sorts of things. Im at breaking point. I CANT DO ANYTHING WITHOUT MY SISTER SOMEHOW RUINING IT INTENTIONALLY.

What can I do guys, I cant get back at my sister, my whole family is on her side. Im literally gonna go kill someone i cant handle my sister any longer. She wont ever get off my case and ruining everything. Its as if my childhood has gone through hell.

 

Wow your sister sucks like a bundle of joy. I am sure some people will give better advice then me because they do this a lot so I will keep my advice short and simple. You need to get your sister a boyfriend or get her laid.

Sounds like she has a miserable life and tries to take you into it. I'm assuming she has few friends/things to do..?

 

Cheers for the reply. I hate my sister too much to even bother 'helping' her. I need to do something so that my parents will listen to me.

 

By helping her, you are helping yourself. If she gets a boyfriend/laid then she will be too occupied to bother you. :idea:

 

I guarantee she'll still fuck me over somehow. I need to do something that'll make her look bad.

 

Be as nice as you possibly can be. Then she will look like a total douche bag. Trust me I did that to this one girl and it made her look like a total butt hole, and she hated me even more, which thrills me, so it's a win. Just be careful.

 

Hmm. Could work.

 

Just let me know how’d you go. I’d give you more an advice if you needed.

 

At moments like this, you gotta know what you're worth and you gotta be independent. I know most people are dependent on their parents at this age, but getting a job wouldn't hurt. To start being an authority in your parents' eyes you need to be more responsible. Even though gaming is fun and all, your future will be much more fun if you're successful, which is probably the reason your sister is so jealous of you. She doesn't want you to be more successful than her, but the sooner you realize that you have potential to achieve something big, the better-off you will be. Letting your emotions take charge of your actions isn't good either. I understand it's hard, but your sister gets what she wants with those out-bursts. My advice, get a job, be more confident in your abilities, and show-off a bit. Trust me, you will actually get far in real life if you have the knowledge and skills to back it up. Cheers.

 

get a job and stop playing too much computer games, maybe then it will show your parent that you can be responsible.

 

When your sisters not home sit down and have a talk with your parents. If they don't believe you try and record her being a bitch.

 

Doing any if that doesn't fuck up your grades. I everything I wanted and all of my grades were A*'s...
If anything all your parents are doing is making you want to rebel, if they think the A*'s you got are bad then they are idiots to be manipulated by your sister so easy.

I'm currently at university and I can tell you there are two people I know (I don't speak to them but I know them) who were treated like you and they are both social rejects, one of them doesn't even get good grades; he's constantly depressed all the time.

Anyway... I do think your sister is a bitch but I also think it's down to bad parenting too.
Some guy above said speak to your parents when your sister isn't in, I'd suggest trying that. Also as another person said be overly nice all the time. If none of those work you could even show them this thread to show how you're feeling.

 

Thanks guys for the advice, will try them out.

As for this, as stated, I hardly play in my situation, and with the grades im getting, ill continue and get a job once im in University. No point getting one now.

 

Also, a job is my time consuming than playin computer games/xbox etc.
You can study while you on your computer, you can't when you have a job.

 

Kill her.

No, im just joking. Your sister obviously is trying to be mean for "attention" If the case is that he has no friends. She want's to be Correct, she want's your prents to agree with her as she feels better when she is accepted. In my opinion, don't talk to your parents, Sit down and talk to your sister.


I got a head ache reading this, im so pissed irl, and i dont even know why.

 

Sounds like your sister only wants attention. She sounds like she strives to see you mad/getting you in trouble. My suggestion is to act as nice to her and your parents as possible, and maybe she will get the point. If she still doesn't get the point, try recording her being a bitch, sit down with your parents, and show them the recording. I feel sorry for you bro.

 

i think the person who suggested getting her laid or a boyfriend could be your solution.
no offense but your sister sounds like a bz.

 

Smoke weed. When they get pissed about that you can quit and they'll be happy you don't smoke anymore.

 

Solution:

Put a lock on your door and your router in your room.


But really, I feel bad for you having to deal with your sister.

 

I think all these attempts to get back at her are a waste of time(childish) and ignoring her loneliness which is the root of the problem.

She is 18. This is not normal.