wtf is going on

Ok so I went out with this one chick in my school, we talked for a few hours, laughed, cracked some jokes. Then at the end we kissed (she initiated it).

Then next week she completely avoided me, but then I texted her and said that "we're just friends" and that she "doesn't do more than friends."

So wtf happened? Only 2 things I can think of is that 1. She is mental. or 2. Her friends said shit about me which made her change her mind about me.

 

LOL, shes definitwely mental cuz she probly doesnt have friends

 

Or you are a shitty kisser... ... or she already had a bf and she knows she fucked up.

 

she's one of those cheerleader girls, and we didn't kiss that long just like 2 seconds closed mouth. plus this is highschool so if she already had a bf then id know about it lol.

 

probably mental

 

Most likely her firends said something to her, like something bad about you.

 

One thing you gotta learn:

Physicologicly (not sure howto spell), the woman is more easily accepting opposite sex as only friends when the man often can't live with that.

For example, most guys think knowing girls means that they must get pussy. Girls think that they can have a lot of close emotional guy friends.

 

Holy crap that is dead on true lol.

But tell me this one thing, why the kiss though? If she thought I was just a friend then why did she initiate a kiss...

 

its just a kiss, touching is more than a kiss, you need to not take that sort of thing seriously and just build from there

eye contact
communication
touching/ kissing
homerun

dooshy really is right thats how most girls are =p

 

Maybe she probably thinks she made a mistake kissing you. And it was just a once up thing. Your best bet is to call her or talk to her in person about it.

 

Maybe she just might have wanted to "experiment" or "explore" and she knew it would be a one time thing and she wanted to try it. Maybe she just wanted to taunt you because she knew you might have liked her. There are a lot of possible answers. You would just have to have been there and understood the situation to completely figure it out (us posters).

 

She's a trick ass hoe.

 

Welcome to the land of females, you are obviously not going to get her, so stop trying. She doesn't want you, and it's her polite way of saying it.

Learn it early to stop yourself from getting a restraining order.

 

Yeah maybe it was just a once off thing and probably likes someone else and so doesn't want that person to know about it. Or maybe she just doesn't want anyone at all to know. Coz if she kept talking to you etc then everyone is likely to find out about it.

 

thats life.
you win some you lose some.

 

yea if you really like her and want to find out what's going on, just call her, and if it was a mistake, so be it. Not the end of the world.

 

You probally gave her mono, case closed.

 

Move on to a new girl. She obviously doesn't want to be with you so forget about it and move on.

 

Probally moved on to a different guy ;/

 

She probably (like everyone else has been sasying) was just "experimenting", or probably got bored of what you and her were talking about lol.

I'd suggest you just move on, dont get too worked up about a 2 second closed mouth kiss.