Long distance.

I'm 14. My girlfriend is 13. Ok. We're pretty young. We know we are. But we have these feelings. And they feel really true. It's just that I live in hong kong. ( yes. It's basically china. ) she just moves to Vancouver. The time difference makes it pretty hard for us to talk to each other. But she stays up all night to talk to me and things like that. We've been together eversince the 1st of Jan 2010. So you could probably imagine that we're pretty close. Thing is wetalk to each other every day. And sometimes my dad rages and takes the wifi away or my laptop. And everything is pretty shit. My school is
More or less gnu get rid of me by the end of this school year. I don't have any close relatives. And my family is just fucked up. And I always feel like giving up. Please sythe. Help me out here. Cause I feel like I have no options left. If you'd like to know more in depth. Add my skype. Llamascanfloat.

 

Hhmmm, it sounds like you're in a tricky situation.
What I suggest is having less contact with your girlfriend, it's not hard to be in a relationship without speaking to each other every single day.
With that done it will give you some more time to do school work and most likely make your dad happier.

I assume he rages due to you constantly speaking to your girlfriend and you having a bad time in school?
If not then talk about that in greater detail, my dad was (still is) a complete ass to me when I was in school.

 

Your in a tough situation that really honestly doesn't seem like it'll work out for you. Your both young, shes 13, your 14. Thats like at least 5 and 4 years before you two turn 18. And im 19, and i cant even think about traveling anywhere. Trust me even if your 18 you'll have no way of reaching her if you have not travel experience. And from what im guessing your family doesn't travel at all.

This relationship wont work out. I suggest you move on before damaging relations with your father and also breaking your own heart.

 

You need to limit talking to her. Father > Girl

You have on father, you'll meet more girls. Most long term relationships don't work out. You don't know if she's cheating on you. It goes vice versa as well. I'm not accusing either of you of cheating on each other, but there is a possibility. You need to give each other space and concentrate on school work and keeping your dad happy.

 

Jahdgshv. Tbh. I can't give up. It's so hard. Like not being able to see her and stuff. Anyways. I'll post in more detail tmrw. When Im in my laptop.