Girl ignoring me , please help

Male | 17
So , the story goes like this , I really like this girl and she knows that , and we have been friends for over a year.
She used to have a boyfriend , 1.5 years back .
Out friendship was going good , we just used to have small fights , and lately i have been a jerk , doubting and accusing her for all my unhappiness. We even dated for 12 days , but it turned out to be her infactuation . I have been abit possessive all this time.
Now its been nearly a week , that she hasnt talked to me and the reason she gave me was , that she doesnt feel like talking to me , and she has to sort things with her ex. And two days back was the last time I talked to her , and she has now blocked me off her contacts( IM apps and all ) , she isnt replying either , and i have been sending her constant texts , like bunch of them every 24 hours.She blocks me whenever / however i try to contact her.

Now i feel like shit , all i want to do is cry and regret all the bad things that i have done.
Please help guys.
Thanks alot :A

 

Stop harassing her before charges are pressed,
Play video games and hang out with friends.

If you stop pestering her to all hell and back, she might message you if you haven't shattered the chances you had.

 

Give her space. You're basically harassing her as she doesn't want to talk to you. By continuing what you're doing, you make yourself seem like a possessive person.

 

This.


dont get stuck up on one girl, there are over 3 billion others out there.

 

You have to give her space man. From what you've said it seems quite clear she either doesn't see you in that way or she wants to work on things with an ex or some one else. Harrassing her when she blocks you will only push her farther away.

 

Like everyone says, give her some space. I would text her in a few weeks honestly saying sorry for being a jerk to you (or whatever else you need to put.) Hopefully she will read it get back to eventually down the road. Time to restart and look for a new chick while thats dwindling.

 

Ask friends of hers if she has mentioned anything about you. If she has been foul-mouthing then you have to lay out a little. If she has not said anything to anyone then it means she just wants to think of it over by herself. Everyone has said to give her space, and you should. Leave her alone, let her collect her thoughts & try to reconcile once things have cooled down. Treat her as your equal & not an object. Do not be over possesive. Let others know you are happy with her, not that you own her.

 

To me it just seems like she has given up on the relationship. Using the ex excuse to scare you off and when that didn't work she paniced and blocked you. From my point of view she has no idea what to do right now but one seems kinda obvious. She is trying to think of a reason for the breakup that you can't argue with.
My advice to you would be to think about those 12 days, was everything really that perfect or was it perfect for you? Drop the pink glasses of love and analyse the period.
After that's done then learn from this and move on. Trust me, it's not worth wasting your time on someone if after 12 days the relationship is already having problems. Also you are still too damn young, at a period of your life when everything can change 180 degrees in a year or less, you shouldn't really be thinking about relationships and more about your future. Once your life gets more stable (~21 or so) then you can start wasting your time on a relationship to make it work.

tl;dr version:
Forget this happened, too damn young to be crying about stuff like this so get you act together and live your life. Go the a gym and get ripped instead of bitching about how everything was so perfect when it obviously wasn't.

 

haha more then double of that you will eventually find someone right for you.:laugh:

 

Only thing that I think I should add [and what I firmly believe in]: If your 'friendship' got to the point where she blocked all contact with you - you won't be more than friend and even if, it won't work out [experience].

If you are just looking for her as a friend, give her time.

 

You've been a bit possessive dude, just say sorry pretend you've had something else stressful on your hands and don't keep chasing her, leave her be and see if she decides to speak to you back

 

Stop sending her messages right now, she might of not blocked you, then she will notice the fact that you're forgetting her and she might be curious about what you're doing. From that moment on you might have a chance of her sending you back. Be very careful when that happens tough. Don't be all overjoyed and instantly send her back, it's better to let it sink for abit, wait 1 hour and then send her back.

peace

 

This. Blast some music to your ears while your at it, drowns your thoughts and keeps you focused on training in the gym.

 

I think music is a must when working out.