Laying your child in his final resting place... :( nobody should have to do that..

On Wednesday at 1:58am Roman Sebastian Miles was born 4lb 4.2oz and 16.5 inches long, he was perfect. At 2:45am Roman passed away from not having enough blood due to placental abruption. This is probably the hardest thing I've ever gone thru and was just trying to see if anybody else could relate I can't stop crying and I have to keep going to the funeral home is there anybody who's been through this and how did you cope

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im sorry bro this shit must be so hard for you knowing i have a 2 year old son and if that ever happen i would want to die, seek counseling people say its for the crazy but its not, occupy yourself and never let your self or your significant other alone, talk to people but dont mourn over this for days you wil become very depressed my advice, find a councelor and then the other thing occupy yourself with happy times and always remember as fucked up as it is you can have another baby dont stop trying because this happened i know it will be hard for you as it would be hard for any parent like myself to see my kid passaway but if you need anybody to talk to let me know man and be positive and look at your positives in life.

 

thanks bro I think the hardest part was telling my 8 year old daughter hardest words ever spoken in my life

 

one day at a time man im deployed and havent seen my son in 4 months, yes he is still alive but it sucks, try for another kid and be positive about the situation brotha, and seek that counseling!!!

 

oh yeah that deployment skypes suck you just wanna hold them my daughter walked right past me at my redeployment ceremony but the moment I said her name she knew who I was good ol deployment days makes u stronger and closer and trust me he will understand and look upto you for it later in time

 

My condolences Stona - that's extremely tough and I can't even imagine what you would be going through right now. I wish you and your family all the best and I hope things turn out well.

 

Thank you so much means more than you can imagine

 

I'm really sorry buddy, truly - I don't have a child but I imagine the pain is unbelievable. Stay strong, man, I am keeping you in my thoughts.

 

I'm sorry this happened brother. I hope you can find comfort in this time of immense pain and sadness. Please seek the help of a therapist. I know they get a bad stigma but it will truly help with coping and it's someone you can be honest with.

I wish I had more to give for your cause but I will share on social media.

 

So Sorry for your loss @Stona, Only time shall heal it and its not going to be easy you just need to keep your head up and keep pushing forward. Best of luck! If you need anybody to vent to or just talk to, dont be shy to shoot me a pm or add my skype.

 

thank you all so much! it means more than you can imagine

 

Really sorry to hear that man. Although I do not have any kids of my own, I did have to put my dog - whom I've had since he was a just a little puppy to rest a few days ago. I know it's not the same but regardless, free feel to hit me up if you need someone to talk to.

 

oh no I'm so sorry losing a pet is probably the closest thing to losing a family member and I'm very sorry for your loss

 

im sorry for your loss and prayer going out to you. ive recently had a daughter earlier this year, and i cant even fathom what id do if i had lost her. Everything is upsetting now, but just put all your trust that your son is looking out for you and is your guardian angel. he's going to watch out for you for the rest of your life, and thats something to be proud of.

 

thank you so much!!!!! It means more than you can imagine!!

 

My condolences. Gave what I could right now. I will pray for you and your family. If you ever need someone to talk to just PM me.

 

Sending prayers your way. I went ahead and shared it for you, hopefully that can help. Best of luck getting everything in order for him. I'm another open PM if you need it man.

 

thank you means more than both you could imagine

 

May he rest in peace <3

 

Holy shit @Stona , I'm sorry for your loss that's the worst. I can't in any way relate but I will keep you in mind when I get paid. I don't know what else to say, our hearts break for you guys. Stay strong