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  1. Dissappointed

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    Title says it all. I'm in my late teens, jack off I'd say, 4-5x a week. I have no problems with ejaculating by masturbation. However, with a girl, I just can't finish. Its not that it doesn't feel good, I just can't get to the climax. I didn't use to have this problem, but I had like an 11 month gap between last sexual relationships :/. So i'm wondering, what to do. I'm left feeling inadequate and shitty. I don't have any weird fetishes or anything, i'm circumcised, I don't know what to do. Do I grip too hard while jacking off? Have I desensitized myself? I've gotten like 3 attempted handjobs and a blowjob, I can't fucking deal with this any longer.

    What can i do to help this problem go away. Please, no speculation definitive responses.
     
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    Try talking to a sex therapist?
     
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    Stop masturbating so damn much.
    You're too used to it.
     
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    Pretty much what blade bro says...
    Quit masturbating for a week or so, have sex and I'm pretty damn sure you'll get your climax.
     
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    Well it probably is because you have masturbated so much that your body is only used to climaxing when you're wanking and causing rapid friction on your glands (your helmet).

    So I'd suggest if you still want to maintain the amount you masturbate, use a lubricant instead and do it much more slowly, this way you're doing it at a similar pace and similar conditions to that of sex or oral sex.
    You just have to build up so that you're used to both
     
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    If you didn't J it during that 11 month lapse that may be why you're having this problem.

    At least your not finishing within a minute or two.
     
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    Hes actually not jerking off that much. man i dont know what your problem is, cause when i went a long time without sex, the next time i did, i waslike 5 minutes. honestly, the fact u last a long time is something you should be proud of but the best thing i can say is dont jack off and perhaps..
    some of youwill say this is a bad idea, try raw dogging if u are careful that might help u..
     
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    How long are you trying before you just throw in the towel?
     
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    How long does it take you to jack off? Also, is it the sane girl? She might just suck or you might have attraction issues.
     
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    The girls your with suck at blowjobs and handjobs. That in combination with the fapping issue. Could also be a mental block of being with someone and not being able to finish. To be honest it could be a multitude of things.
     
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    ya bro yer prob to used to jacking off ha
     
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