Im fudging myself over!

Sooo Hear is the story,

Me and my Ex-boyfriend, have been over for 5 weeks. I still love the boy like crazy. He does have a knew girlfriend. and I am 'OK' with that. So, We DO NOT talk on a regular Bases. But every so often, He does text me. And ever so often I do text him.. And then on Sunday i believe we made plans to see each other Wednesday... TOMORROW. Im so excited. I know its a bad idea, I know it is. But hey if i still love him. Shouldn't I still be friend with the boy?

Soo, I honestly have this way.. Of seducing.. I should say. I never mean to. But he seems to just fall back in love with me when he sees me (we've been broken up before. and when he does see me he fall back in love (he says)) I am kinda hoping to play that card. I mean. I don't honestly know if i want him back. Cause he is a bit of a douche. but i love him. He was my first everything. and he did tell me that he still had feelings for me. But I mean am i just screwing myself over.

I'd rather be friends then nothing... :love:

 

Just keep your cool. If he's a douche like you say he is, he's not worth your time. Depending on your age, I highly doubt you're "in love" with each other.

My best advice is: move on.

 

yeh your screwing your self over, it did not work the first time and deffo wont work the second time

if you got back toghether and had 1 arguement everyone will get blown up all the past reasons you split up and arguments will get brought into it and yeah... you screwing your self over and tbh your being very mean on his new girlfriend and so is he by meeting you she has feelings to

 

If he's broken up with you before, and then again... history only repeats itself.
and Burnley is right, this other girl is in the picture now.. I'm sure while you were with him you would of been heart broken if he had been going off to meet up other girls.

 

I've been reading your threads for awhile now and I will give you my personal advice to move on. If this guy was in love with you he wouldn't keep leaving when things are good, then coming back when he wants too. He's deceptive and using you because he knows that he is your first everything and that you still have feelings for him. Please stop giving this guy what he doesn't deserve and kick him to the curb. Your better than him.

 

He's moved on and got himself another girlfriend. You will have to move on too.

If you are going to constantly try to seduce this guy you can't just be "friends."

 

go up to him grab his nob and kiss him

 

if you take him back youll break his new gf's heart, and she'll feel just like you feel right now, heartbroken, just get a new bf urself too

 

lol wow this seems like me and my girlfriend ! or my ex now that was my first everything also ha , we were just alike this story , but were broken up now and in my advice you probley did fudge up , stay friends with this boy though defently.

 

He's using you. His excuse of "falling for you" again is a quick trip to have some funtime with you if you know what I mean. He's playing on your heart like a drummer on drums. Pull away or you'll never escape it.