What do? (girl help)

So i basically exploded last night. I have been best friends with my ex from almost 3 years ago and last night i lost it. Her boyfriend of 2 years treats her like sh!# (can i swear?) and i had enough. Every time he broke her heart i was there to help her through it. even after he cheated on her TWICE she still got back with him.

so last night was like my final straw. I basically dumped my heart out to her and told her how i feel about her. She then tell her bf that i'm having a hard time and he should talk to me. well i let him have it. told him all she shit he puts her through and that he doesn't give a fuck about her. to make a long story short im pretty sure i lost my best (if not only) friend and i am completely clueless on what to do.

if you want more details or what not just ask. i doubt any of this makes sense.

 

So pretty much you feel betrayed by your ex still going with this guy who's a jerk to her?

My personal advice is to move on. If she doesn't want you, let her be, there are a lot of people that you can have a relationship with.

 

Its her choice to be with a dick bro. Youre a nice guy and if she wants to be treated like shit then let someone else do that. Just dont focus on her and try and get a new girl, youre a good guy and im sure you will get a good girl

 

She'll stumble back in the end, when she finally comes to her senses and leaves the guy thats been a complete detriment in her life these past two years. People do crazy things when they think they're in love. Don't take it personally, shes just caught up and will soon need your shoulder to cry on more than ever.

 

Like they said ^, here choice. just let it be and they will break up, if not. oh well. you getting into it just makes urself look bad

 

Yeah =\ she started to come back when he first cheated she got back and he cheated again. Idk she said she wanted to give "us" another chance. And that she would break it off if he fucks up again. But how does a fuck up fuck up more?

 

Don't let her vent to you if she's going to be like that, just don't answer her. Wait to talk in person, sometimes, it's easier that way.

 

Unfortunately girls can be pretty stupid and blind when they are in abusive relationships sometimes... I think you sound like a wonderful guy, but this girl is tearing you apart as you have to watch her new BF treat her like a bag of shit. I think you just need to move on and let her make her own mistakes and maybe one day she will wake up and break up with her boyfriend and realize that she is dating an asshole, and that you have been there in front of her all along and would treat her the way she deserves to be treated.

 

ha ha WOW!

so i started texting this really cool chick i have been friends with for a while a few days before this whole fiasco with this other girl and i though we were hitting it off. So we were going to hang out today after she got off work. 12:00 came and she sent me a text saying i could head over around 12:30 so i asked her were her dads apartment was (that's where she was and i didn't know where it was) send her a couple more messages thinking she might not have gotten them. 12:40 comes around and my phone vibrates... i got a facebook message:

23 minutes ago

Hey so i can't really hang out much this month. let's shoot for november times k?

i said

are we not going to hang out today?

She said

14 minutes ago


do yu want to?

oh shit stickers

no i can't

crap shit crap poop

DON'T HAT EME

i have to go get my mom's car

it's a couple hours away

and she still hasn't sent a text


WTF?!

 

She's either an idiot, or she is just putting you off.
If I were you I'd just ignore her and find another friend.