I can't think of a title.. Friend problems?

Hey Everyone.

I don't even know where to start with this one. Ok I bought a house and moved out my Parents house like 4 months ago. I am 18 years old fyi. I have a friend who I knew a very long time. She wants to move in with me, with her boyfriend. I honestly have no problem with her moving in with me, the only problem I might have is her boyfriend. First off he doesn't have a job, so I tried to help him get a job and his ass didn't even show for the interview. But out the kindness of my heart"I'm the type of person who can't say no".
I let them stay with me. Now her boyfriend thinks I'm trying to steal her from him.. What the hell.. First off.. yes she's a very beautiful girl but I'm not into girls so that's the last thing he needs to worry about. The only problem with that is... My boyfriend also stays with me, but her boyfriend don't know that, he just thinks were friends or something.

Anyways he's getting annoying with this childish stupid shit. I'm about to kick his ass out because it was a lot peaceful before he started this. I just want to come home and relax without hearing all this drama about me trying to take his girl! AUGH!!!!!

Sorry guys, had to get that off my chest.

 

Does he know you're gay? If not, maybe you should tell him. You should also sit him down and tell him that you're not trying to steal her and that if he wants to stay he's going to have to get a job. If not, he's out.
Honestly, if I was you, I'd have kicked him out by now.

 

Tell him you're gay. Problem solved.

 

Tell him your gay and if he continues to dick around the house tell him to leave.

 

Just wondering, does that girl and her boyfriend pay you to live in YOUR house?

 

No, I just wanted to help a friend out. However, I should've thought of that.>_<

 

I might have to tell him... I didn't want to because I'm not open yet.

 

Hey man, I completely understand why you feel so unconfortable and mad. You helped him out more than once. (you let him and his girlfriend live in YOUR house, and you helped him to find a job.)

Since I don't know you or him, it is hard to tell what you should do right now. Personally I would talk to him and explain him why you feel disadvantaged, and tell him that you're concerned about him not having a job. It wouldn't be a bad idea to tell him that you aren't interested in any girls at all, if he is disgusted over your sexual orientation I highly suggest you kick him out.

 

Not even for the electricity, gas, internet bills? And who pays the food?

Tbh, I'd kick those leechers out...

 

It's your house, Kick him out. Alternatively you could talk to your friend and have her talk to him. Another option would be to come out of the closet and kiss your man in front of him. Guarantee he will never mention it again or he may even move out on his own.

 

Tell her to pay rent atleast, there's a difference between being a friend and being a leech..

or kick her ass out

 

I smiled that that lol. I was talking with him about doing that. I want to kick them out but I don't want to feel guilty because of it. MY friend say's she'll talk to him this evening, hopefull it works out.:noworry:

 

I'd ask them to leave. To be honest it sounds like they're mooching off you.

Don't let people walk over your trust, you sound like a solid person and it's not fair for them to do that. Her boyfriend sounds so ungrateful, you're letting him live in your house of FREE, which means you're losing money by having them live with you.

I'd tell them something like "I'm sorry but I just can't afford to have you two living here like this", if they protest then I'd tell them to leave in a more assertive manner.

Let us know what you do in this situation, I hope it works out for you.

 

Dude your really nice though and easy going , man i would never let 3 people stay in my home >_< even though my close friends or relatives.

Suggestion: Tell the dude your gay and explain the whole situation carefully ( no offence ), if his being arrogant and ignorant I suggest you teach him a lesson
and act tough on him
he should be thanking you alot as he is leeching your home and all your resources