I bet there are more that feel the same.

Hey, thanks in advance for reading.

I'm just a regular guy, with a quite regular life. But I've got this little problem: love. I think.

There's this girl I really like, but it's almost like Romeo and Juliet: She's like the really popular girl, everyone likes her, she has cool clothes, she's very mature etc.

I'm the gamer guy; got a couple of really good friends, everyone likes me but most don't really know me, open for all kinds of music. My friends say I'm quite a comedian, but I'm not when I'm close to people I want to impress... which is the problem. Close to those people, I'm probably the most boring person you'll ever see. I got nothing to talk about, just nothing.

I think she likes me, I really do, but I'm not sure. "Our eyes often meet" in class, and we smile, but that's it. I guess she likes me, but not "like like".

Is there anyone out there with the same thing, who got a girlfriend and wants to tell me how? Everything's appreciated. Please don't laugh at me, because I'd be very ashamed of myself. I'll also make a clear report about you if you think this is "SO FUCKING STUPID TO ASK ON THE INTERNET".

Sincerely,

Mill3n.

PS: If there's anything you'd like to know, tell me. No pictures though.

PPS: I'm 14 years old.

 

recently there is a girl i really wanted to get to know her
i asked her about uni related stuff that's how conversations normally start
if you are the shy type you can add her on facebook after you talkto her several times in real life and chat on fb then ask for her number

 

Believe it or not, this is the exact situation I was in months ago. You basically described me and my now future wife. All I had to do was start a few normal conversations, just about average, everyday things. After a couple weeks of this, I worked up the nerve to ask her if we could be something more. Needless to say, it worked out perfectly.

I'm a bit older than you and it's with college, but it still applies.

 

Try be confident, open with something like "You have to stop staring at me in class "

If your friends think you're a comedian then you must be quite funny, once you feel comfortable with her i'm sure she will find you funny too, because your comfortable with your friends and can joke around and whatnot.

Facebook is a great idea, after I met my current girlfriend I added her on facebook and things went on from there, planned dates etc.

Let her set the pace, DO NOT RUSH IT AT ALL.. try judge from what she replies to you and the tone in which she replies. That should give you what kind of vibe she wants to send back, if its not what you're looking for then unlucky, but by the looks of it, she keeps checking you out

Also a good way to open is to try notice something different on her on different days, compliment her for that.

Goodluck hope that helped, you're still young - girls are still easy.

 

Thanks for the help everyone, but especially you. You gave me something to start off with etc. I'm thinking of Facebook, but I don't like it. I'd just put my nerdy stuff on anyways :O

 

You'll move into the comfort zone after a few regular conversations with her, then she'll start laughing. Once you get her laughing she'll start falling for you. I met my girlfriend in my 7th period class by letting her listen to my ipod haha. Weird way but it got the job done. It's all about confidence though, don't worry about failure. There's plenty more girls out there, just don't fall for her too hard man. It will be rough in the end.

I'd say just try talking to her about the class at first, maybe ask her for help or help her out, ya know? Move on from there. Maybe try joking around while helping her too, it would help you build up the comfort/more confidence.

 

Thank you very much sir.

 

i had a similar situation at school
i was the gamer girl, who people knew of, but thought was wierd lol

in my younger years of high school, i was good friends with this 'cool' guy OUTSIDE of school, but at school he couldn't talk to me.
his friends wouldn't let him
if he approached me at lunch time whilst walking with his mates they'd yell out, "oi man, why are you talking to that retard" and stuff LOL
my friends would judge me too, for being friends with one of the guys that would bully them :S

so i liked him, and i'm sure he liked me. we did NOTHING about it.

years later, (like 6 years), we were drinking and he told me that he liked me at that time. I told him that i felt the same. We were beating our selves up for never trying. who knows what could've been, you know.

so what i'm trying to say is,
DON'T BE AFRAID TO SAY HELLO

who cares if you are from different worlds.
opposites do attract.
you're probably the nice guy who genuinely cares. the guys she knows are probably w*nk*r idiots who just cheat and be jerks.
and don't be scared of people teasing you if she does for some reason say no... it'll be old news in no time

high school is cruel, but it definately makes you a stronger person

sorry for the essay