[How to:] Solve Friendship Problems[~LS]

[Liquid_stranger]

Simple steps to solve any friendship/relationship problem!​

F.A.Q:

I am in the wrong, but they won't listen when I wan't to apologise. What do i do?
You need to persist. Try everything you can to get through to this person. However, don't be so quick to act. Sometimes you need to let the person cool off.(Especially if it was a heated argument/fight) Also, if you have made countless attempts to talk to this person and they are still ignoring you. This person is not really a true friend. Back off for awhile and see if they approach you. If they don't. It's not worth it and you are waisting your time.
They are in the wrong. I wan't to forgive them. But I can't. What do I do?
As hard as it is to admit you're wrong. You need to swallow your pride and say sorry for what you may have done. However, you cannot let your "friend" walk all over you. If they accept your apology. That should be the end of it. If they keep bringing it up for your reaction, they're just being stupid.

In a nutshell:
All friendships are a "two way street". You cannot put in all the effort and expect a great result. If your "friend" is not willing to put in the time and effort to make your friendship work. Are they really a true friend?
Also, don't be so desperate to have many friends.
A fake friend is no better then no friends at all.
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I hope this helped!
Leave constructive comments below.

For more help, feel free to PM me or comment below!

Yours truly,

~LS

 

Although you're banned, I'll go ahead and give you some constructive feedback if you ever plan on writing a guide on another forum, for school, or whatever.

First off, there's not just one way of solving a friendship. Friendships are usually broken in a variety of different ways and there isn't an exact way of solving it. An example would be this:

Try everything you can to get through to this person.

Sometimes, you can't get the person whom you just broke your friendship with to just talk with you at first. In some cases, you just need to give it time. I'm talking from personal experience here.

Speaking of personal experience, a guide like this should definitely have some real life experiences in it. It's hard to write a guide and have exactly no experience about it.

Your guide should definitely have some more frequently asked questions. If a friendship is really a friendship, then they're definitely more ways to approach the situation.

I hope you get the chance to read this and act upon it. I know this wasn't exactly the best critique I've given someone, but it's kind of hard with such limited work put into the guide. Good luck to you in the future.

 

[cheater2010]

id say that the best thing to do is chill out for like a week or so then chuck them a txt or hit them up on facebook. unless u have say done there sister,girlfriend or something really bad then u should call them in 2 weeks or more lol.

 

[Chi City]

Give them some time to chill out and then apologizing.

 

[w000t]

Although you're banned, I'll go ahead and give you some constructive feedback if you ever plan on writing a guide on another forum, for school, or whatever.

First off, there's not just one way of solving a friendship. Friendships are usually broken in a variety of different ways and there isn't an exact way of solving it. An example would be this:

Sometimes, you can't get the person whom you just broke your friendship with to just talk with you at first. In some cases, you just need to give it time. I'm talking from personal experience here.

Speaking of personal experience, a guide like this should definitely have some real life experiences in it. It's hard to write a guide and have exactly no experience about it.

Your guide should definitely have some more frequently asked questions. If a friendship is really a friendship, then they're definitely more ways to approach the situation.

I hope you get the chance to read this and act upon it. I know this wasn't exactly the best critique I've given someone, but it's kind of hard with such limited work put into the guide. Good luck to you in the future.

He shouldn't be banned in the first place, No one ever goes to the dispute a ban.

I like this guide LS. It's well written and should help people a lot.