Had to get it out of me

So everyone should know by now I have girl problems that are pretty much resolved except this one..

I'm in a dilemma so to say, and I need to know what to do..

In order to give me advice you must know the background..so here's the story:

I met her about a month before school started. I met her on omegle (for those who don't know its a huge chat site where you can either text chat somebody or video chat somebody [all strangers]). Anyways we decided we liked each other enough after talking to talk little more on the app called kik (messenger app for ipod/iphone that lets you send messages/pics back and forth like msn pretty much). So we were getting pretty talkative that first hour, and I remember she had to go and I never really bothered to get on my ipod so I never talked to her for a bit. Well two weeks before school I was on my ipod and messaged every girl I had talked to on kik just to see who would respond. She was one of them.. We talked and talked and talked and talked and talked. Did I mention we talked? I found out she was less than a year younger than me, she lived only 2.5hrs away ish, and we had a lot of common interests. We started talking daily but mainly at night. Eventually we took our friendship to the next level. We had a semi-long distance relationship. I was planning on seeing her the week before school, but I didn't have the gas money and now that I do, I have school so I can't. Anyways, we started talking for hours everyday on kik. We would talk about anything and everything. Then it became every night we would 'roleplay' (basically have e-sex; read literotica you'll see). If we didn't do that, we would exchange more pics and then talk deep conversations. We would start talking about our future (The college I'm going to next year is literally 30 mins from her MAX). We were going to get married and we even had our kids names in mind. Now don't laugh or anything because I'm 17 she's 16 and we're both smart and mature. So don't think we're just fooling around or anything. We're actually doing this forreal. Anyways, we started skyping, face timing, and video chatting since it was easier. She had things picked out like the ring she wanted, where we were going to live, and stuff like that. I mean we had it mapped out. We were actually going to put this plan into action. Well I'm a genuinely nice guy and a sucker for this apparently. She could text my phone from her ipod with the textplus app since her phone had gotten stolen. And she did.. every night just like always. Anyways so she got a phone, and I was so happy. The first few days we texted everyday all day. I forgot to mention but by now time has passed. We started in late July and now it's nearly October. So slowly she just kinda stopped texting me as much which I was busy with school so whenever she did text I responded immediately. Well she told me that she had gotten kissed but pushed the guy away. I was just kinda like =| since nothing I could do. Anyways now she never texts me unless I text her first. She says she still loves me, but idk.. I mean I can text her stuff like 'hey baby i still love you' and she'll say the same and then I can start texting things after that, and she'll not respond to some of em. It's just that I feel she's pushing me away and it's gotten to my head. So I know I pretty much have this girl who lives near me as a girlfriend (not official), and I won't let that bother me, but I developed feelings for her like anybody would.

So tl;dr?

Should I confront her or what.. I feel like just sending her a text saying 'look whats the deal' or something..

Also I feel like I'm sounding desperate to talk to her by sending her texts throughout the day. I feel like I should just not talk to her for a while and see what happens.

I pinky promise this'll be my last girl thread unless I become a father :embar:

 

I can relate..

Just shoot her a text, see how it goes, but dont look desperate.

Its all about the way you carry yourself.

 

People can relate... epic fast response too

Anyways thats the problem

I send her a text like for example here's my last text I sent to her roughly 2 hours ago:

I feel like I already blew the try not to look desperate look

Also beforehand she was all for me visiting her now she's like 'well you are a year older and I'll be living with my parents still so I'll have to ask..' where beforehand she was like yeah we'll meet up soon no problem

 

well "make the option for you to see her more then a "might"

how far is she? miles exact. just say screw it and tell her

you dont sound desperate, but that you want answers.

tell her to ask her parents, go for a weekend.

text her one more time, and be a man about it, let her know how you feel, and thats it. dont ever text her back..

i did this, when my baby momma and i split up and i was talking to this girl that i did like, and she still wont stop blowing me up after a month..

the girl was the same way from the start, after they ponder on it.. the realize and really want you.. the more you ignore them after you talked continuous to them, the more they want you!

EPIC FAST RESPONSES!

im notorious, i dont play scape anymore so when im not busy i just refresh the new posts page and see what i can talk about or buy/MM or Sell

 

I'm a big nonbeliever in long distance relationship, but this isn't even that bad since it was 2 1/2 hours away. If shes different now than she use to that means shes bored of the "relationship" because mainly and honestly to have a good relationship you have to be able to see eachother and communicate with eye contact just because you're in the relationship but if you don't see eachother often and take a while to text or respond it just gets old because you're both always wondering "when is he/she going to see me, kiss me , hold me, touch me" etc. To me if you're gonna have a relationship you need to see eachother a lot before you can do the long distance relationship because you don't know how you are towards eachother.

 

What I just read sounded pretty intense, and to me it seems like you're both rushing into things. My girlfriend rarely texts me unless I text first, but it doesn't bother me, and it certaintly doesn't mean they love you any less.

 

Roughly 150 miles... :/ too far for me to do during school because I'm so busy

Trying my best

Yeah idk

So here's what I'm thinking of saying:

I already sent her text saying "Hi" because she won't respond if I text her about something else.. so I sent 'Hi' to see if she'd respond and she did so i'm gonna need help asking what to text her.. thinking of just saying what i feel and saying continue to not text me if you don't feel the same blah blah blah

 

You have no chance against somebody who can physically be there for her. That being said it looks like she's getting bored and you need to spice it up. Unfortunately, that's hard to do through a phone.

 

Don't laugh but here's what I texted her:

"God this has killed me..we are perfect for each other yet i feel you pushed me away. I understand. I only want what's best for you so I'm manning up. I think you are amazing, perfect, and just soo many more. I'm not going to text you again now. I love you and thats howh I feel. If you dont respond respond I wont pursue after you as thatll mean you won't want me. Ill be forever yours and I dont want to put my life on pause waiting for you if you dont want me. As the king once said "Ill be there. Whenever you need me ill be there. If you should ever find someone who I know he better be good to you cuz if he doesnt, ill be there".. so if you dont text back i wont bother you anymore.

i love you"


There plain and simple as best as I could while spicing it up with MJ lyrics + JB

So that's that and now should I delete her #, delete her off my fb, delete her off my skype, and just forget I knew her?

 

basically told her that as long as she can text me no matter how much or how little i'll be fine until break when i can come down

 

Who? (thought she'd say me)

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I'm not chris.

 

It's done as far as I can see, I'm sorry for your loss :/
Deleting her off everything wouldn't be as smart until you get it directly from her that she isn't into you as much. If you make it look like your feelings were hurt maybe she might come back, but where's the point in that if it's only short term.
It's done, and I'm sorry.

 

Look at the bright side buddy - now you can love somebody that can be there for you physically day in and day out. You will be able to see her smile and touch her face. It's better for you that way. You'll get over this other girl in no time

 

Find a girl near you, or its going to tear you apart. She might just be playing with you after all, even though it sounds dumb.

 

maybe she feels like you guys took it too fast
especially since you met her online

 

Yeah guys I guess I mean I'm already asking someone else out a lot now..

worst part was I asked when it started and it was when we were still together..

that meant she had been cheating on me on the weekends I wasn't with her..

I can still keep personal photos right? I mean they're faptastic