Sexuality.

When I go to party's, I enjoy drinking, Drinking alot.. Theres been times when at party's, We've played spin the bottle, Which When the bottle lands on you, you have to kiss the next person it lands on. Thus, I've kissed guys, all friends. Some people in school taunt me when they found this out, calling me Gay or Bi.. However..

I know myself that Im physically attracted to females, I have had sex with two different girls, and it feels natural for me, whenever I've kissed guys, i've not felt anything like an attraction, and I feel comfortable kissing them because I feel secure in my straight sexuality, I've never done anything else but "snogging" with a guy (best friend.. alot of vodka..).

What I'm asking is that am i deemed "Bisexual", Even though I'm not physically attracted to males, but I have 'passionately' kissed a male?

 

No you're not bisexual if you're not attracted to some people of the same gender. If the only physical attractions you have are to those of the opposite gender, then you are straight, plain and simple.

 

What planet do you live on? Peopld don't care how you feel, they can only observe your actions not your intentions. All they see is him, kissing a guy. That's more than enough to jump to a conclusion about him. I'm not saying that's the right thing to do, but it still happens. If i were you, i wouldn't care about what people think though. People's job is to mock fun of you and your job is to ignore them.

 

Okay, if you're going to be a complete ignoramus, don't post. He asked, does the fact that he kissed guys make HIM bisexual. He did not ask if kissing other guys made him bisexual in other people's eyes. He is NOT bisexual because he does not have attraction to the same gender. Next time... read the post.

 

How's that not asking whether or not he's CONSIDERED as being bisexual? If anyone it's you who wasn't able to comprehend his request.

 

It don't make you bisexual, There is absoloutely nothing worse then being made out too be something your not, p.s There is nothing wrong with what ever sexuality you are.

 

Well if you enjoy kissing them, then ya it does but who cares? Its your life, so you shouldnt care what anyone else thinks

 

I don't enjoy kissing them, I Don't feel anything when I do, it just happens and I accept it.

 

I mean..it's been a long standing tradition that girls kiss girls but guys refrain from kissing other guys. This isn't fair to the females! However..i'm part of the ones that refuse to kiss other guys. If more guys were fair about it; as you are, then i'd probably be more accepting as well. You're not bi unless you do the same sober. You have plenty of explanations..

1) Drunk
2) Confident in sexuality
3) It was spin the bottle. How many girls did you get to kiss ?

I wouldn't worry about the guys that taunt you. Perhaps they're not confident in their sexuality?

 

Yeaah, thats what I say.. "You wouldn't care too if you were not too scared to find out if you actually liked it."

and a side note, several girls.. That was a beautiful night, Strip Poker.. <3

 

Spin the bottle causes bad things.
Being comfortable with your sexuality and having a good laugh is a lot different than being bisexual. So tell your friends to grow up, and grow a pair.

 

. Lucky you.

And yeah, I can actually give you an RL conversation relevant to this. I'll be X, my female friend will be Y. (realize conversation occurred before this)

X: So you just throw yourself at people?
Y: No..i'm a virgin!
X: Oh sure, but how many people have kissed those lips?
Y: Well..*blah blah*, and Jasmine.
Y: Jasmine!?
Y: It was a dare! I wouldn't do it again.
X: Why not?
Y: Cuz i'm a girl...? I like guys.
X: I don't get it. I've kissed girls before and I can tell you it's a lot of fun.
Y: Well that's because your a guy! Pssh, do you like kissing guys?
X: I don't know, never done it before, so I couldn't tell you if I do or not.
Y: Oh.

^^ She expected to win that argument via me saying "No I don't, i'm not gay!"

But honestly, release your mental attachments to the opinions of others. I don't know if i'm not gay. Right now guy on guy doesn't appeal to me at all, but some people don't find out they're bi/homo until much later in their life. Right now i'm feeling straight, so i'll go and be the best straight person I can be.

^^ Hopefully HALF of that made sense to you. <3

 

You do bisexual 'activities', but aren't really bisexual as you don't feel an attraction toward males.

 

Your not gay, you were drunk. We've all done it. It doesnt mean anything.