I've not got the bollocks...

... Too finish my girlfriend :/...

NVM THINGS CHANGED

 

Sometimes after being with somebody for so long, and sharing so many experiences and memories with that person (and in your case, a child), it is extremely hard to let that person go.

I am kind of oldschool in the sense that I don't believe in splitting up without trying, and don't believe in how often couples these days get divorced as soon as the tough times hit. But if this is a constant thing and you see no way out, you do need to take your own happiness into account at some point.

If you truly see the relationship as being in a complete dead end, then you just need to grow the balls and go for it. It is going to suck, it is going to hurt terribly, and you are going to be emotionally exhausted while you go through the split. But in the end, you will be able to find some peace & hopefully some happiness and freedom again. Who knows, maybe you will find love again Real love, without the consistent bickering, fighting, arguing, yelling etc.

 

my suggestion... do it.. never get married. or she'll take you for all she can!!!

p.s in all sereousness tell her straight, if it is making you unhappy you gotaa pall
look for love and let nothing stand in your way

 

Tell her if you argue one more time, you're going to break up with her.
But actually do it, if she sees you're serious then she should stop arguing, if not.. You've broken up.

 

or! start an argument! tell her you cant take this anymore!! tell her you'll drop her stuff of at her parents... and thats the final straw.

DO NOT FEEL SORRY FOR HER AND TAKE HER BACK

^^
shoopadoop was the inspiration for this idea

 

No if he starts the arguments she will turn it around on him and say he starts the arguments. If he doesn't start it she will still say he causes them but she will know she did.

 

he can do it the easy way or the hard way, your ways hard.
she could become major non argumentative

the art of manipulation is underestimated! as soon as the smallest thing ticks you off... blow it out of proportion!


I CAN'T TAKE IT ANY MORE! *throws cat across the room*

*disclamor* only use in desperation + ensure you don't hurt the cat

p.s shoopadoop is more reasonable,, but if your ever feeling trapped. thats what you gota doo

 

The art of manipulation is UNDERESTIMATED, fuck yes it is.
I used to argue a SHIT TON with my girlfriend, and for the most stupidest things you could ever imagine.
One day I started an argument with her about something I didn't like at all, next thing you know we're just yelling at each other, throwing things and cussing each other out.
It started getting a bit calm, and so I just took the perfect opportunity to tell her I loved her, but I swore on god that if we ever argued about a list of things that I made at that moment, we would be done for, forever.
She then saw how serious I was and since then, we've not argued once anymore, this happened 3 months ago and I've been with her for 16 months. (I've done this with 2 girls, and it turned out the same way for both)
After our argument was finished, I was still mad after telling her all of that, and she just started trying to fix it all, and promised me she would fix the things I didn't like.
Note that if the girl really does have STRONG feelings for you, this will most likely work, but you have to scare her to the point of telling her you'll abandon her and never see her again, it will be kinda hard since you two have a child together, but if it works, in the end it pays off.
If the girl doesn't have feelings for you, she will most likely dump you on the spot, and if she does, you have to never try to get her back, or take her back if she "thinks she made a mistake".
This is better for both of you as you can search for real love on another person, and not worry about all of the arguing involved.

 

Grow a pair and end it.

 

Before you break up with her, I really think you should go see someone to sort out your relationship and give it another chance or try making it work. It would be much easier if you didn't have a child together but the fact that you do makes things so much more harder and complicated, I really think you should think this through before doing anything you might regret.

 

Just sit with her, be nice and friendly and let it to her gently. She'll cry and you'll have to hug her and reassure her! Arrange to see your little girl as much as possible and then you may see that seeing the ex-girlfriend around as just a mother of your child with no relationships may make you fall for her again.