I'm in a bit of a predicament

Well, about me I'm 16 years old, and I'm having some girl trouble.. Mainly due to my personal confusion.

So here goes.. 5 weeks ago I met this girl who's name is Brii, she was my cousin's best friend's cousin. We hit it off and began a flirtatious relationship, and we hung out.
She doesn't want a relationship as she had recently broken up with her boyfriend and she said we'll see what summer brings. I had feelings up until a few days ago when a new girl stepped into the picture.

Now, last week I met this girl named Anna and again we hit it off pretty quickly.
Instead of just a flirtatious relationship we developed a more touchy-feeling relationship, but with a lot of flirting too. I have feelings for her too, but I'm more physically and sexually attracted to her as opposed to emotionally which I feel for Brii.

So my situation is I have no clue what I should do.. I don't want to hurt either of them, but I feel like picking one of them is going to led to someone getting hurt.


EDIT- If it makes any difference, Brii lives about 20 minutes away, and I do not have a car. Anna lives down the road, and is easily accessible.
What do...
Discuss.

 

Been there. Just go with what your heart feels.

 

Also been here >_<
If Brii has just broken up with her ex and doesn't want a relationship at this time, stick with Anna..
Last thing you want is to be a rebound too
edit: Unless you truly believe something real can grow from Brii and you put in the effort to win her over.

 

If you have some sort of relationship with both of them, then one of them is going to get hurt regardless of what you do. But you can't have the best of both worlds, you need to pick one and nip the other in the bud.

My personal opinion would be to stay with Brii. I don't understand all these guys telling you to stay with the girl that you're physically attracted to. That's going to bring nothing but drama and baby mamas.

So yeah, imo keep things going with Brii. Don't be in it for a relationship, be there for her as a friend and see how things grow from there. You're still young. :]

 

Sticking with Brii isn't going to get anything, at least not for awhile because of the fact she recently just broke up with her boyfriend. I myself am not a very patient person, and am slowly developing feelings for Anna as well. So I can't even decide on what I actually want to do..

 

Don't spend time thinking about the future. Think about the Here and Now, and don't regret it.

Here and now: Anna
Future: Brii Shes not ready.

 

I stand by my post, I could sit here and argue that good things come to those who wait and who have patience, but I feel like that won't get anywhere. I'd much prefer waiting for a real relationship to start, then getting with some other chick just because she's easy.

 

briis not ready go with anna if it doesnt work out give it another try if its not serious with brii u can still keep in contact with her just try to keep jealousy out of it for a little bit have a less flirtatious realationship with brii just be friends and if it doesnt work out with anna you will know when brii is ready

 

You could probably explain your physical and emotional feelings quite easily.

Brii, you've known her for a lot longer and have communicated with her more, specifically with the flirting, you've developed a much more emotional relationship than physical. This is because, your not actually doing anything physical.

Anna, you've known her for a shorter period of time, however have developed a more physical relationship with her. As you said yourself, more touchy-feel. This would be why you don't find yourself as emotionally attracted to her, but more physically.


Honestly, go with Anna, your not really in a relationship with Brii, she's already said, 'she's doesn't want a relationship'.
If you want to think about the present and not hurting anyone, go with Anna.
If you want to think about the future, go with your hearts content.

Remember, your only 16, so in regards to relationships, what you do at this age really won't have too much of a bearing on your future.

 

Yeah, I leave tomorrow for 3 weeks as I'm off to training for JROTC. No Cellphone or computer.
So, it'll give me time to clear my head and figure out which option I want to pursue.

Hopefully Anna will still want to be with me when I return, and Brii I probably will not pursue.

If I lose both of them though due to lack of contact I'm going to be fucked.

I plan on writing Anna from my tranining however.

 

Any tips on how to write letters home to a girl?

 

Think about whats best for you right now. If you get together with Brii your going to have a long distance relationship (until you get a car) where you cannot see her that often. On the other hand, if you get together with Anna you could see her everyday and have a blast. If I were in your position I would go with Anna right now and Brii later if she is still available after you and Anna are done.

 

What do YOU want?
Do you want a relationship, or do you want somebody to fool around with.

If you think Brii is worth it, wait for her. If not, just root n boot Anna

 

Go with both of them.

 

Don't go with what your hormones what.(aka: Looks.) If you truly have feelings for Brii, that is who you should be with.

 

If your looking for a longterm relationship go for Brii, if your looking for a fuck-buddy go for Anna.