Help with Girls!

I need help with girls. I stumbled upon a girl who always said Hi to me every passing period last year. Her beauty is what makes me have a crush til now which I still do and its the longest crush I ever had I guess. I rarely talk to her and if I did , it would be through text or IM. Which I guess is a pussy move yeah? So I don't know what to do but should I just do the pussy move and try talking to her through text/IM which I will know that many people will tell me that it will be x2 better to talk to a girl only in person or something similar to that. Well I don't know what to do, I see her during my break and sometimes during lunch but I have a feeling shes there because to be near me?

 

You're answering your own question, to a degree. No matter how often you text/IM the person, you'll never be really comfortable around them unless you talk to them in person. You'll always have some level of awkwardness when it's only an e-chat relationship.

If you see her during your break, simply start up some small talk. Ask her how her day's going, how her schedule is (if you don't already know), etc, etc.

Good luck.

 

^ This.

Just start some small conversations, and if you feel a little spark, then you're golden. Just make sure to be yourself man, don't act like someone you're not.

 

You can do what I do, I could make some excuse to happen to talk to her in person. If you're in the same class as her, then you have some luck, you could ask her for some help or just randomly talk to her in class, but depends on how strict your teacher is. But there's a reason why she always says hi to you, she might want you to make the next move, so try talking to her, don't jump too fast and hopefully you will have a nice relationship.

Best of luck, I hope it goes well!

 

If you're testing her then you half way there anyway. Just ramp up the texts a bit and find an excuse to talk to her when you can.

 

A couple of thing's girls like

. Confidence ( if you are not the most confident person in the world, just make it look like you are )

. Conversation (As most men know, women love to natter if you build up the confidence to approach her, start a conversation and try your best to keep it flowing )

. Compliment's ( Women love compliment's the great thing about this is it shows you have noticed something about her which shows interest, Just make sure you don't over compliment her as that will be seen as annoying )

. Comfort zone ( this could also go with confidence, but from what i read you are chatting online which is a good start, Now it may be time to take a step out of that comfort zone of yours and speak in person, If you leave it too long it may be too late )

Hopefully this will help towards

 

The more you talk to her in person, the less you will be afraid of talking to her in person and you can ask her out after a while

 

I suggest you talk to her, but hey that is just me. But just try to keep it simple and nothing boring.

 

I would just be like, wanna go see a movie next weekend? if shes interested she will say yes. If she makes up an excuse (ull know) shes not interested.

 

It means so much to a girl if you'll talk to her in person and she likes you already. You have no idea.

 

id say puss it up some girls prefer to talk usign text if you date youll talk that way most of the time anyway. also if you have facebook that is a good way to talk to people and im assuming she gave u her number? because if she didnt and u start txting her shell think of you as a staker and dread any convo you have with her from there on out

 

basically if u keep txting her eventually ull feel like ur know her pretty well over txting ofc n ull step out of ur shell for once n ask her out, im pretty sure she'll say no, not because she doesnt like u but cuz girls like confident guys who are comfortable around any1, im not tellin u to act like a dick or be a person ur not, im just sayin that u should just forget watever keeps u from talkin to her, if ur afraid wat ur frieds will think of u seeing u around her just forget bout that...just be confident n everythin will go well

 

^^^ True... I do have to admit that confidence is a HUGE thing as far as this goes, but the biggest part of confidence is actually going up and talking to her in person

 

Yeah just make conversation, not on something like facebook though!

 

if you want to win her over show confidence go up to her show her your interested. if you want to take it slow continue iming her and giving her casual smiles when you see her.

 

You just got to talk to her a bit and remember to be humorous, girls jump all over funny dudes.

 

^ This.

Acting somebody your not will make things worse. To really make something work, you need to be you, and if they don't like it, move on. If you do act different than usual, though, and they like you like that, then when you reveal your real self, the person might not like it. Good luck, Mate

~Rejection.

 

Go talk to her in person man, she'll like you more.

 

Yes, like everyone told you talk to her in person. But don't act extremely confidental when you are not IRL, you should be yourself

 

Be yourself, and as dumb as it sounds, if it helps you out and you know she has a sense of humor, use a sarcastic, corny pick-up line.

How much does a polar bear weigh? Enough to break the ice!

Keep it simple