Help Me with Stuff

I personally think that I have no future at all. I dont even know who i want to be,

I got kind of alot of buddies and sometimes hang out with them, but most of the time I sit home and play css or some other shit on the internet.

My daily Routine.
#1 Sleep
#2 Go to school in the morning
#3 Come home from school
#4 take nap for 3 hrs
#5 Homework
#6 Computer again css/forums
#Sleep
AGAIN.

I spend like 4-6 hrs by the comp a day, doctors said only 2 is recommened. IDk what should i do. I dont want to stay as a computer nerd for the rest of my life. I know alot of girls that like me, because i got a nice toned body, But i dont have the balls to ask them out.

ANY solutions?

 

Find an outside hobby in the region where you live. Where I live, Biking & Skating were the most popular hobby outside of the stuck-up white kids playing mainstream sports, etc. I adapted into biking/skating not because I liked it but because I needed to leave the PC and in doing so, I've found something that I like EXTREMELY. Now, I'm doing stuff that I honestly would've never imagined doing on a bike and it feels phenomenal. As far as the whole girls portion goes, you have to understand that the whole body thing, just gets them attracted... It's the personality that keeps them there. If you want to just hook up, by all means, the body might be fine and then the personality won't matter. If you want to have a steady relationship, which is best IMO, I'd say try working on the personality thing and once you're good, ask a girl. With girls, It's really confusing because most of the time, you can't really know whether they're into you. What I like to do is ask them to hang out outside of school and try to flirt a little and if they flirt back, I take it as the perfect oppurtunity for a future relationship, and in saying this, I know I'm not the love guru, therefore my techniques won't always work.... But they do/have worked for me many times and I'd love to spread the advice (As long as you're not stealing my girls). Lastly, you have to understand that in being the man, you're going to have to take responsibility in life and you could consider the whole "asking" thing a part of that. Take it as a step into manhood. and Rejection, as bad as the word sounds, is only a 5 second thing and then it's over. You move on and the entire experience makes you stronger. Think about it like this..... There are a lot of fish in the sea, and you're going to have to go through a lot of them until you find the right one, so I'd start now and see if you can get a head-start on finding the "right" one. Then it's more time with the one you truly love and you're truly meant to be with in life.

 

TY man this was helpful.

 

My only recommendation to you (because I had the same problem) is to find another hobby to keep you going. Try putting yourself out there and try new things. Get into sports, drawing, working, etc...

 

EGU what type of hobbies u do? play any sports?

 

life is life, its a cycle. Maybe now you have no idea what you want to do with your life but it comes around eventually, trust me. and as acouple people have mentioned, if you think you are spending too much time on the computer then go outside, or hang with a friend. being alone sucks the life outta you and it gets boring > <

and three hours is a nap? lol... then I've been taking a nap for sleep for the past month xD