$$-Guide to the First Date-$$

Hey guys, this is my second guide. I thought I'd do this one next, as I really could have used some tips when I was younger/less inexperienced.
Thanks in advance Also, PLEASE feel free to post your own ideas/thoughts, as I am completely open to modding this


The First Date

-Before I get started, I want to point out that these are general do's for a MALE dater.-


So you've made it past the hard point: Asking a girl out! Congratz brother, it probably took a lot to do so. Now you just have to make that first date great... Otherwise it might be your last!

1. When deciding what to do, consider her interests, comfort zone, hobbies, and DISLIKES. If you dont know any of these, you might wanna ask. Now.
Ok, now that you know, try to come up with something creative! Activities that combine her favorite things are a win-win-win.

2. Before committing to the first date:

Remember that this is the appetizer... You want to let her know who you are, how you behave, and what you are willing to do.
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Three tips:

1. Don't be looking to get into her pants! Despite how sly you may think you are, girls will notice!
2. Be prepared to meet her parents (see part 4)
3. Above all, never give her a reason to think YOU think she isn't amazing. Never press her after a date, asking her if she had an amazing time. She did, just have faith.
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3.Before the date (day of):

Be tasteful. If you guys are going to a nice restaurant, be dressed well and prepared to pay for her meal no matter what the cost.

Be Clean! I cannot stress to you enough how important it is for you to be well groomed, showered, and brushed (teeth and hair). Give her a great first impression!

Three tips:

1. Get a good rest before hand. Being well rested helps confidence, humor, and overall attractiveness.
2. Stay away from huge amounts of cologne... She can tell if you sprayed half a can of AXE on yourself beforehand to hide the dirt.
3. Dress in something you feel Confident in. Even if it's not your most expensive item, confidence makes you look like a million bucks!
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4. Picking her up:

Ready to go? Jump in your car (or your parents) and head on over. Have her address already saved somewhere, and keep her phone number handy.

Three tips:

1. When you first arrive, get out of the car, walk up to her door, and Ring/Knock. I prefer to ring, as it's less intimidating.
2. If she opens the door, make sure to keep eye contact with her. Don't look at the ground, the sky, or her ceiling... If she has pets, pa them attention as well.
3. If her parents open the door... You're screwed... Nah,just kidding. This can actually be a great opportunity! Introduce yourself with a firm handshake, maintaining eye contact, and remark on something about the house, yard, or decorations inside. If they ask for phone numbers, addresses, or parents numbers, DO NOT act as if this was abnormal. Politely tell them everything they wish. Politeness and respect are key here.

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5. During the date:

Hopefully you've made it this far without any serious setbacks, and if not, just try to forget them... If she thinks you are at ease, she will be too! While walking or driving keep her in conversation, asking her pretty much anything.

Three tips:

1. During the date, stay with her at all times! If you see a group of you're friends hanging out, let them come to you! (If she is also friends with said group, its different.) Unless she's going to the bathroom or makes it clear she needs to be alone for a minute, stay with her.
2. Be yourself! With every date this becomes easier, but often guys try to impress her or be really funny and just look stupid.
3. Whip it out! No, sadly I'm not talking out about your dong... Money! You should insist on paying for her, even if she says she is going to pay for herself. Do this discreetly but firmly.

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6. After the date:

Now that you guys are done, and its about time to head home, remember to let her know that you enjoyed being with her. Hopefully you have given her a good night as well.

3 tips:

1. Walk her to her door. No matter what date this is, you should ALWAYS do this.
2. Don't rush the first kiss. It could happen tonight, but if it's not something you feel comfortable with, chance are your going to bomb it. Wait till next time, no loss.
3. Remember to thank her, and her parents. Also, suggest getting together again in the near future.

Congratz! You made it through the first date! I hope it's one of many...

Thanks for reading... Please comment and give me tips on this.
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Enjoyable read, you did a good job and got straight to the point.


P.S I didn't know wolfs or dogs went on dates.

 

Good job <3 Well put out,

- Make sure they know that there special to you. (There not just another girl)
- Get to know them BEFORE! the date, dont just be like "o thats girls pretty wana go out for dinner?"(kinda odvious i guess)
- The biggest thing i think wich you say in many diffrent ways is BE CONFIDENT!!! (but not cocky)

anyways you kinda went over all these things but i just want to add what i thought.

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Had a great time reading tbh, really nice guide (y) .

 

Thanks a lot for the feedback guys! 1.1 will be realeased today, adding things I forgot and your suggestions if appropriate thanks!