Hello :] I'm Okkk/Kylie (call me whichever you like, it TRULY does not matter to me.) and this is a guide to get that "special someone"! Whether it be the boy you've been texting for a while, or the girl you can't help but think about, I'll help you romance them straight into your arms! Most of these go for guys and girls, and if it varies, I'll be sure to add it :}
Step 1:
Be sure that they know you exist. Don't become obvious, and annoying. Just talk to your soon-to-be-lover frequently!
Example:
When walking down the hallway, say "Hello!" or make small talk! Be sure you talk on a day-to-day basis!
Step 2:
Flirt! Don't over exaggerate your flirting. Make it subtle.
For a guy to a girl:
If she says: Ugh, I think this looks ugly, be sure to say something along the lines of: "Oh, nothing you wear makes you look ugly." Or, "that's quite impossible".
For a girl to a guy:
If he says: What're you doing tonight? Say something a bit like: "Oh, nothing...(if it is a text, put a smiley face! If you are on the phone or talking face to face, make sure you giggle just a bit) what about you?
Do NOT say things like:
"Hey Babe, wanna hang? Can't wait to see you."
They may not be into you like that YET, and might think you're just being desperate! D:
Step 3:
Hang out regularly! Don't make it pushy, as in asking them to hang out EVERY DAY. Maybe every other weekend, grab some coffee, see a movie! Now, don't make it seem TO much like a date, but if you are a guy, a big +1 would be to pull her chair out! For a girl, laugh a bit at what's supposed to be funny. Just make it clear you're enjoying their company!
Step 4:
Act excited when you see him/her! Don't make it fake and corny, as in:
"omgomgomgomgomgogmgogmgogmgogmgogmggogm you're here omgogmgogmg that's soo kool omgogmgogmg."
Just look kind of downcast (don't over-do that..>_>) until they walk up, then have a bright smile light up your face! A good sign that they're into you is if they ask what was wrong before they walked up. That's a clear sign!
Now, you've done all four steps, what's next?!
Asking them out, or "Becoming official".
This should almost always be done face to face, or if that's NOT possible, it should be done over a webcam if that's all you can manage. A girl will REALLY like it if a guy does it to her face, because it will show her that the guy has balls! If you're a girl, the guy will think you're confident, and it'll be cute. Though, most of the time, the boy will ask the girl out. If possible, do something romantic to ask them out. Don't spend hundreds of dollars, cause then what're you going to do if one day you two decide to get married?! Just buy some roses, a necklace, nothing to shmancy if you're a dude, or she might think you're bribing her. For a girl, just out-and ask him. It's, in most relationships, the mans job to be romantic! ;D
DONT DO THIS:
http://cache.gawkerassets.com/assets/images/4/2010/02/500x_asking_out_via_text.jpg
So, I REALLY hope I helped you guys if you were having trouble with this sort of thing. Anyways, BYE! :] And goodluck!
Remember, never be afraid to ask someone out. For all you know, the other person could just be to shy to ask you! And it could blossom into something beautiful.
Step 1:
Be sure that they know you exist. Don't become obvious, and annoying. Just talk to your soon-to-be-lover frequently!
Example:
When walking down the hallway, say "Hello!" or make small talk! Be sure you talk on a day-to-day basis!
Step 2:
Flirt! Don't over exaggerate your flirting. Make it subtle.
For a guy to a girl:
If she says: Ugh, I think this looks ugly, be sure to say something along the lines of: "Oh, nothing you wear makes you look ugly." Or, "that's quite impossible".
For a girl to a guy:
If he says: What're you doing tonight? Say something a bit like: "Oh, nothing...(if it is a text, put a smiley face! If you are on the phone or talking face to face, make sure you giggle just a bit) what about you?
Do NOT say things like:
"Hey Babe, wanna hang? Can't wait to see you."
They may not be into you like that YET, and might think you're just being desperate! D:
Step 3:
Hang out regularly! Don't make it pushy, as in asking them to hang out EVERY DAY. Maybe every other weekend, grab some coffee, see a movie! Now, don't make it seem TO much like a date, but if you are a guy, a big +1 would be to pull her chair out! For a girl, laugh a bit at what's supposed to be funny. Just make it clear you're enjoying their company!
Step 4:
Act excited when you see him/her! Don't make it fake and corny, as in:
"omgomgomgomgomgogmgogmgogmgogmgogmggogm you're here omgogmgogmg that's soo kool omgogmgogmg."
Just look kind of downcast (don't over-do that..>_>) until they walk up, then have a bright smile light up your face! A good sign that they're into you is if they ask what was wrong before they walked up. That's a clear sign!
Now, you've done all four steps, what's next?!
Asking them out, or "Becoming official".
This should almost always be done face to face, or if that's NOT possible, it should be done over a webcam if that's all you can manage. A girl will REALLY like it if a guy does it to her face, because it will show her that the guy has balls! If you're a girl, the guy will think you're confident, and it'll be cute. Though, most of the time, the boy will ask the girl out. If possible, do something romantic to ask them out. Don't spend hundreds of dollars, cause then what're you going to do if one day you two decide to get married?! Just buy some roses, a necklace, nothing to shmancy if you're a dude, or she might think you're bribing her. For a girl, just out-and ask him. It's, in most relationships, the mans job to be romantic! ;D
DONT DO THIS:
http://cache.gawkerassets.com/assets/images/4/2010/02/500x_asking_out_via_text.jpg
So, I REALLY hope I helped you guys if you were having trouble with this sort of thing. Anyways, BYE! :] And goodluck!
Remember, never be afraid to ask someone out. For all you know, the other person could just be to shy to ask you! And it could blossom into something beautiful.
