Girls are confusing. Who agrees?

Alright, so here's my story. About 2 months ago, I was hanging out with this wonderful girl probably once or twice a week. I started liking her a lot. One day I told her that I liked her, and she told me that we should just be friends. I just responded- "Oh okay, I understand."

We didn't really see each other for two weeks after that. Then I finally texted her and asked her if she wanted to go somewhere Friday night. When I saw her for the first time in 2 weeks, she gave me a big hug and said that she had missed me. When we were in the car, she randomly said, "Oh hey, did I tell you about Philip?"

I was thinking..."NO YOU DIDN'T, WHO IS PHILIP?!"

anyway, she explained how she was seeing him, but stopped seeing him about 2 weeks ago. 2 WEEKS AGO? NICE TIMING RIGHT?

ever since that day, we've been seeing each other if not every day, then every other day until now. She always asks me if I want to go hang out. It's always just us two.

I still really like her. I don't know if I should tell her though, because I'm surprised that things are not awkward between us and we can still see each other. Would it be awkward if I told her how I feel again?

 

No, not at all. Tell her how you feel about her and how you feel when you aren't with her and after telling her all that, she will probably feel the same for you and the worst that can happen, would be a rejection. The way I am seeing it is that she has feelings for you, so in my opinion, you should go for her.

Hopefully I helped you.

 

Well just tell her how you feel and if she dosent feel the same way for you just say ok i understand but can we still be really good friends? and if she does like you well i think you know whats gunna happen then

 

I say that you should just go for it, and tell her how you feel. If you wait to long you two will become more like best friends, and possibly lose your chance to actually take it to the next level. If you think about it the worst thing that she can say is no, and more than likely you two will still be able to stay friends. If she's hanging out with you every day than she must at least like you, but you have to actually ask her if she has the same feelings as you.

The only real problem that I could see coming up is that she isn't over Phillip yet. It could be possible that since she isn't with Phillip anymore that she is using you as kind of a back up person. Really like I said before just talk to her about it, and find out where you two stand.

Hope this helps.

 

Dude GO FOR IT, ive been in this situation before, I told her and I GOT HER. We are no longer dating but are still very close friends.

 

I say take things slow for a bit. Since she just broke things off with her other boyfriend, she might still be trying to get over him. But dont wait to long, i say just hang with her untill you feel like she likes you.

 

It's the same with me, I got her. and now were through, but it was hella awesome!

 

I recently went through the same situation and the girl was bisexual and she just broke up with her girlfriend so as we were good friends and she had a crush on me in the past, she started feeling comfortable coming close to me and chilling once in a while. I thought it would be good if I took it nice and slowly, but she eventually went back with her girlfriend, so I moved on as well and now, I have a target on a new girl which I am pretty sure she likes me

 

Philip wasn't her bf, they were just kind of dating I guess. Thanks for the input guys.

 

I wouldn't say anything, I'm sure she still remembers you have feelings for her. So just wait until she says something about her feelings towards you.

 

this is a really good point lol

 

Why not make her want you? if i was you I'd play hard to get.. without a doubt, make her actually want you, otherwise the result will stay the same, you without her.

 

Yeah, a lot of my friends tell me that I'm spending way too much time with her, and it looks like I either have nothing to do with my life, or I totally push everything out of the way just to see her. The fact is, it just so happens that I'm free when she's free. I guess I should hang out with other friends more or something.

 

Don't tell her again that you like her.. if she still feels the same way it will make things even even more awkward and she will realize that you won't get over her. If the time comes when she likes you back she should be smart enough to tell you, since she already knows you have somewhat interest in her.

 

Girls are girls and you'll never know until you become a girl yourself. But in this situation don't put too much commitment to her or you'll get hurt more than if you were just "considering her'> They could flip-flop and switch to another boy in less time than you think. So yeah, you should let her come to you if she really likes you.

 

Are you sure you're not friendzoned?

Also this section really needs more females...

 

Don't talk to her at all. Honestly, its not worth it at all. I've had to deal with this for roughly the past 4 months with 2-3 different girls and once you just get sick of it you'll actually start looking for someone you actually like. Because, it was like she was using you or something until she stopped seeing him then you started talking again. Focus on money and having fun, girls aren't worth it until you're older.

 

You're in the friend zone.
Get the f*** out of it before you do that.

 

Trust me... do not poke the emotional content in her at the moment lay low about the subject for a while continue to chill with her or w.e but don`t come on about you liking her topic unless she brings it up... After a while when things cool down and you think its a good time go for it...

I`m going to go ahead and take a guess that she`s loud and talks a lot...

 

(I don't bother reading everyone else's responses)

Maybe she just honestly wants to be friends with you, most girls like having their brother or as movies like to call it "their gay best friend" with them at all times. She just got out of a relationship so there isn't really any hope that she'd want to jump right back into one. You just told her your feelings very recently take some time and maybe around valentines day ask her again.