Girlfriend Issues

Alright this is the situation, the other day my girlfriend was over, just the usual hang out. Things were going fine until she said she had to use the restroom. So she proceeded to the bathroom (down the hallway from the family room). I waited, and waited, and waited, for about fifteen-twenty minutes until finally I thought something had happened to her. I knocked on the bathroom door and got no response. I didn't want to open the door but I didn't want to just sit there. As I was about to open the door I could hear a faint moan from my younger brothers room. As I walked towards his room I heard more and more slight moans. I opened the door only to find my "girlfriend" performing oral sex on my younger brother. Immediately she jumped up and ran out of the house. My younger brother just sat there staring at the ceiling. I had no idea how to feel, my mind was completely flipped. My girlfriend wont even respond to my phone calls or texts anymore and my brother wont even look at me and he rarely talks to me.
I have no idea where to go from here...

UPDATE: I talked to my brother and he told me that she has been cheating on me with him for two months now.

 

Aw man I'm so sorry to hear manuel. She seemed like a really good girlfriend too.

I don't even know what to say though! That is just terrible of her!

I would definitely try talking to her about it and see what's going on with her. I Wouldn't stay with her though she might just cheat on you again.

Talk to your brother but don't blame him. He's your brother and you should put him in front of a cheating whore anyways. He will not be so embarrassed eventually and he'll learn to get over it. Just remember to forgive him. Things like this can end up in a pointless grudge that lasts a lifetime.

If you need the closure with your girl, find it. If not just stop talking to her.

 

I do blame my brother though, he is partially responsible for this.
I have attempted to talk to her, in fact I have tried calling her six times now and so far not one response.
I am hoping she has the dignity to at least talk to me.
Worst comes to worst I show up at her house and force her to talk to me.
I have yet to talk to my brother as well, just the thought of him angers me deeply.

 

1. That's traumatizing.

2. Fuck her, don't talk to her ever again.

 

The thing is, we have known each other for nearly four years and I don't want to just throw our relationship out the window.

 

She sucked your fucking little brother's dick. If it was your dick, then I see no problem here, but it's your little brother. Okay?

He's gonna have that on you for the rest of your life, you think about that.

Hey, (brother's name), fuck you!
Whatever dude, I got your girlfriend to suck my dick!

 

She sucked your brothers dick, fuck her off. Get your brother back.

 

I understand what you are saying but it is hard for me to just throw a four year old relationship away.

 

How can you possibly keep this relationship though? When you look at it in the big picture, you'll always have in the back of your mind what you caught her doing. Will you be able to trust her during the relationship? Will you be constantly questioning what she's doing / where she is in fear she's cheating again?
What happens when she comes around to your house and your brothers there? What about the relationship between your brother?


Answer questions like these before you make a decision.

 

No wonder you're asking for advice here. You're a pussy.

You should already know what to do. Kick some ass and smack a hoe. So what if it's been four years. If I have learned anything in life, it's that nice guys finish last. Maybe that's why she sucked your brother's dick, because she knew you wouldn't do anything. Sorry if I'm flaming you, but it's the truth. Man up.

 

I know, I know, it looks like I will have to just forget her. It's just hard for me to forget her. She has been such a great person up to this point.

It's not that I'm not man enough or I'm a pussy it's the fact that she has helped me a lot throughout my life, especially when my two cousins died. I appreciate you taking time to offer me advice I will consider it.

 

That's why I said ask yourself those questions to work out whether or not it's worth it. Obviously she meant so much to you, but you have to think about everything, with an open mind.

 

Maybe you should talk to her. You might be able to get back with her if you trust her enough.

 

Yeah your right I need to think about this more before I go do anything stupid. What should I do with my brother? Should I confront him?

 

Yep. Do it in a nice manner at first, just talk to him but if he turns into a dick about it you have a few options.
a) Physically hurt him
b) Get revenge in a non physical manner


Personally, I'd be physically hurting my brother if that was me but that's just me.

 

Well the thing is he isn't really my brother, he is my step-brother. My mother and his father got married and they now live with us. I don't want to physically hurt him because that could potentially lead to problems with my mom. And it's not like I can sit down and talk with him, he has no respect for anyone, he does what he wants when he wants.

 

Would your mum really get angry at you, for hurting your step-brother who got with your girlfriend of 4 years?

You could get revenge on him somehow, but in a way that if he tells on you, you can just deny it or whatever. Either way, you have to get him back for what he did.

 

Well I really don't want my mom finding out about this and yes she would get upset, she defends that moron with her life.

 

Yeah fair enough, well get him back with some other form of punishment - I really don't know what you could do, anything you try to do publicly he can counter with "Your girlfriend sucked my dick" so you'll have to get him with something that he can't complain about.

The revenge part is up to you :\ Either way, you have to do something.

 

Revenge won't make you feel better. Period.