Girl:/

[Aroxez]

Soooo..

There's this girl - she's amazing. I don't know what to do, she says she really likes me. I really like her, and I don't think she believes me. I've been hurt before (I was cheated on for two years), she's been hurt before..she doesn't want to fall for me quick and doesn't want to get hurt. I promised her I wouldn't hurt her. The last time I felt this good I got hurt. I don't wanna get hurt again, what should I do? :-/

She said I make her the happiest girl in the world..and I don't even know. We're not even dating..

Advice?

 

[Giddy]

Go with what feels right. You will be very unhappy if you never take chances and live in fear. You could end up getting hurt again, but it could also be a very happy and strong relationship.

 

[Mint Oz]

Whatever feels right man =)

 

[Aroxez]

Go with what feels right. You will be very unhappy if you never take chances and live in fear. You could end up getting hurt again, but it could also be a very happy and strong relationship.

I can't have a strong relationship if she won't believe me. She's so scared that she'll get hurt again, even though I'm promising her I'm different and I won't hurt her. She thinks I'll find someone better. I don't even know what to do.

 

[Platypi]

I can't have a strong relationship if she won't believe me. She's so scared that she'll get hurt again, even though I'm promising her I'm different and I won't hurt her. She thinks I'll find someone better. I don't even know what to do.

The chance you take with Relationships is that you ending up being hurt, but if you never pursue a Relationship you will never know what happens. Yes having your heart broken sucks but not trying to pursue what is there will only make you regret it later. What Giddy says is absolutely correct.

If you feel that this relationship is worth pursuing then only you will be able to convince her that being with one and another is right. Tell her that she's the only one you want and be persistent. Don't let her self doubt herself.

Best of Luck!

 

[FibOfAllFibs]

I can't have a strong relationship if she won't believe me. She's so scared that she'll get hurt again, even though I'm promising her I'm different and I won't hurt her. She thinks I'll find someone better. I don't even know what to do.

She may be afraid of you going too fast, and then pulling out of the relationship. If she is, then I would avoid rushing into something. Take your time, go out on a few dates, spend some quality time together, without making a full-on commitment to a relationship. When you two feel you are ready, you can take that step.

 

[Imagine]

Pretty much what is said above and let us know how it goes too

 

[Sillymonkey]

She will believe you with time.

Why? Because she will be able to see the difference between you and the person that did wrong to her.

Gradually you will become a safe, loving part of her life. It will only take time for your relationship to grow strong.

 

[Aroxez]

She's heard things such as I'm a player. I'm trying to prove that I'm not and I actually like her. She told me she loved me last night. :$