Girl I Really Like

+1 to leanbean for not raging back.

some people just belong in the sandbox.



I think i am just going to ignore this girl for a while, if she really likes me like I like her then she will come back at some point.

 

I'm not being mean man I'm giving you the cold hard truth of life and girls. Yo, when you act like you care they don't want it you know how many girls have called me a douche bag and I smashed them afterwards after not talking to them for months. She won't like you if you care, I never trip over a bitch, and if you follow my advice and don't give a shit she'll come back to you in the end if you care she doesn't want it.

 

Sounds like your trying to find the person to fix it, I had the same issue. I would tell her how you feel and say I don't know if this well mess this up or not.. But I like you <3

 

I agree with this 100%.

If you get her to cheat then you have no respect for their relationship. No respect for her. Also if she cheats on him, what's to stop her from cheating on you?

Just keep doing what you're doing, being a good friend and comforting her. If her relationship goes bad and they break up, that's when you move. Not while she is in a relationship, otherwise she'll be an emotional wreck and things wont go well.

 

Give her a shit tonne of attention, always be very supportive and make her feel like you would do anything for her and that she couldn't live without you. Then after around 3 weeks cut her off completely. Don't be the conversation opener, definitely don't be the shoulder to cry on and if she begins the conversation be blunt and stubborn. She will begin to crave your attention and want things 'to go back to how they used to be', she will try everything possible to gain your attention. After this stage tell her you don't want a friendship, you want something more. I've done it plenty... Good luck dude. (Some girls obviously are oblivious to this 'tactic', everyone's different).

 

Basically what I said but way broken down, thanks Pretty Flacko

 

Red flag. You could easily catch some rebound, but if you are looking for a serious relationship, you would have to wait for her boyfriend to be out of the picture.

 

To be honest, just be there and be her "best friend" do everything to make her happy... But don't do anything that you would do in a relationship until she breaks up with her boyfriend! [=
Good luck homie.

 

Stay away bro. One of my exes broke up with me and I still cared for her. She has been dating a guy for like 4 years now but like a year ago she would always want to tali about her problems with her bf with me and she would want to hang out go to lunch and what not. She is still with him. Is not worth it she doesn't like you like that.she just likes the fact that you feel sorry for her and wants the comfort. Not worth the shit storm

 

Leave this section now. Your not being helpful ..troll




AS for the OP

i say just look for someone else... Trust me if you try making a move on her and she's a faithful one... U'll most likely get stuck in the "friendzone" or you will be fully cut off... Dont try anything until she breaks up with her Boyfriend ( Hopefully soon!)

 

You were cheated on by your girlfriend. Having this new girl in your life that you like and then knowing that she has a boyfriend could be some sort of compensation for you. It's definitely not the way to go. Any relationship started by cheating will end by cheating. Trust me. Don't fall too far in where it gets to the point where you're having an emotional affair either. That's just as bad.

After ten days, I doubt that you love her. You're hurt and you're looking for something more and you found a possibility. You may have broken up with your ex ages ago, but time doesn't necessarily heal wounds. More often than not, it doesn't. Just stay on the safe side, don't flirt with her. If she comes to you with her boyfriend issues/cries on your shoulder, comfort her as a friend and definitely never take advantage.

Summary; don't flirt, don't take advantage of her coming to you when she's upset, and definitely do not tell her how you feel.

 

I think I will follow your summary. The more and more I think about it, the more angry I get. And as I look around, I feel like I could like any of these girls here with the right circumstances.

Thanks for the help everyone. If anyone has anything else to say, I'd prefer it to be in a PM.

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