Girl help, Way more complicated then other threads.

Read the damn thread.

I have admitted my love,
She does NOT go to school with me,
And I am talking to her.

Raise your bloody postcount somewhere else.

 

But she does go to school, I didn't say you go to the same school, and I was saying to build it up again, "chatting her up". Sorry.

 

If you want to forget about her, just occupy yourself with things to do and eventually you'll think about her less and less.

 

Don't return.
Your 'advice' is not usefull.

 

After thinking about it for a while, I decided I'll post my two cents.

Tbh it seems the only thing in the way of you and her is yourself. If he is really your friend he's gotta respect the fact you REALLY like her. They have parted ways and I don't see why you can't date her. It may hurt your best friend at first, but he will ultimately get over it. Just my advice on the whole situation.

 

Tbh i'd just date her bro you sound like your in LOVE with her and you made a pact with ur friend but the truth is bro don't let her go u sound like u really love this chick once you loose someone you love you wont get them back 90% of the time you can always make new friends if you look at it like that.

 

Update7: I spoke with her once more and she has said she will not be leaving her current BF for me. (I have told her not to do so before)

 

I would stay out of relationships for a while and suggest she does the same... But that's just me... Because you getting into one would hurt her and her getting into one out of revenge or what have you could also hurt her.

 

Tell her the complete same story you told us basically.

 

Good point. Honesty is always the best policy. I know I'd never be in a relationship and be dishonest. If you're dishonest from the beginning, it's bound for failure at some point.

 

I have.

 

Stay friends, it will seem difficult at first, but over time your guy friends feelings will change about the situation and you and #1 still have intimate feelings towards each other, awesome, if not, you have a good two good friends.

You said it yourself, she doesn't want to leave her current boyfriend. Friends man, that's where you need to be.

 

If I were you man, do what your heart tells you.
Don't come to the internet for advice, it'll only make your head spin even more than it should. Shit happens for a reason, and if she somehow fell back into your lap then maybe life is trying to tell you something. Either way, don't try to make something happen because of what someone on here says. Do what your mind wants, your heart wants. Shit happens for a reason, and I assure you I can tell you this stuff because I've had a hell of a life man.

All I'm saying is, if you want something go get it, because once its gone it's not the same anymore when you have it again, like a toy you break as a kid and tape it up, it's not how it used to be. If you don't want to be with her then don't, but your mind is telling you something else. If it's love, then you're deep in it bro, and good luck getting out, its a bitch. But yeah, don't listen to the internet man, and forget about your "bro code." Forget about trying to keep all this shit straight, just go with the flow and see what happens.

 

Is there any way your best friend will find this thread? Carful.

Ive been in a situation like this and ended up with nothing.
Girl chose me bur I lost the respect of my best friend and hasnt spoken to me since.

We parted ways after 3 months andit wasnt worth a friend

I also taught I was madly in lovr and that I cant live with out her , but you will get over it thrue time.

 

Hm. This is rather interesting, and I know this had to take you a long time to write it out, so I will give you the best possible answer I can give.

This seems a bit confusing, and you go back and forth on what you say. You say you want her, but you can't be with her, I think you said this because of her currently having a boyfriend.

But you want to be with her, even though is your best friend's ex. I personally NEVER date a friends ex seeing as it can complicate things between you and your friend, even though you guys may have come to certain agreements, your heart will always override your mind.

Now, as for hurting her, I know you have apologized and everything, but what I think you need to do is to be her friend. Care about her. Show her you are sorry, not just some words that you said. Don't worry about dating her. I've been in a similar position you are in right now, and we are still, after 3 years, best friends. Even though we both love each other like no other, we remain friends. I'd prefer a friend over a girlfriend, I don't know about you. Just show her. Show her how much you like her, in time it will all work out.

 

damn this sounds nearly as complicated as my last relationship :/

Just follow your feelings, don't give her too much attention tho

 

Update8: Meeting up with her this saturday, Telling her I am backing off. At least for now.

 

Man if you think that not seeing her is going to "cure" your problem you're wrong. It's going to make you crazy and you're going to think about it more, and come back here with no idea what to do. Just go for it man, and see what happens, there's plenty of girls in the world.

 

If I go for it I may end up killing her.
Read the last part again. "At least for now."

 

I agree with you... Just wait it out. Observe.