The Phat Big Kid
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Girl Help Please.Alright, as of right now I feel like this girl maybe toying with my heart. I really don't know I can't seem to figure it out, anyways here it goes, warning, this is kind of a long story, you have been warned.
So I've known this girl since I was very little, her mom use to be my aunts best friend up until a few years ago. I've always kind of liked her, and I use to have this sense that she liked me.
Well we would only really hang out a few times a year when we were younger, maybe 2 or 3 times a year, we use to always kind of get along, and she was always very pretty.
Anyways I hadn't seen or talked to her in about 2 years before last year, I added her on Facebook, and asked her how are things going, stuff like that. Soon after she asked me for my A.I.M screen name, I gave it to her, we talked on there, started texting and talking on the Phone, and stuff. Than one day she came over, and she asked me if I could help her with her Ipod, I said I'd try and I did, we talked listened to music while we did it, she asked me for money for something to eat I gave her $20, and she left afterwords.
I'll be honest I felt kind of used, I mean once I was done putting music on her Ipod she wanted to leave, and asked me for money, and so I did. After talking to her for a while, another couple of months, she would always ask me to help her with her ipod, I kept saying no I had felt used (didn't tell her that..) but she was okay with that. I still liked her however, I don't know it's like a spell she casted over me lmao.
I than made a really stupid move, I was talking, and I was just like "Fuck other dudes, (not literally lmao) you should be my girl, and she was like aww and started asking me questions, I answered, them and she was like, I think your awesome and stuff, I just don't like you like that right now.. I said okay that's fine, and forgot about it.
A few weeks later on AIM I remember she asked me, why hadn't I asked her out yet? I was really confused, and I said, it's not like you would of said yes anyways right? She goes yea true. So I was like, and see that is why I didn't ask you out, why waste my time. So once again I kept talking to her, and she wanted to come over again, and she cracked a joke that maybe she'll help me with my "virgin problem
" (Yes she knew I was a virgin she asked I said yea, I didn't really care neither did she.)
So I said fine, you can come over and a few days later I texted her asking if shes still coming over for me to put songs on her ipod, she said why what else did I think she was coming over for, I joked and said Bunz, (Sex) she said hell no your like a cousin to me, I said aww come on, and so on and so forth.
I didn't text her for a while and a few days later she asked is it okay if she still comes over? I said naw, I made up some excuse, and she FLIPPED OUT she wanted to come over extremely badly, I mean really badly, seemed kind of odd to me, I still said no, and she said fine don't talk to me, and I said fine, deleted her number, and blocked her facebook.
A little more than a year later, I re-added her on facebook, said what's up, she said nothing, and to her give her my number. We did and I've been talking to her often again, for a while. She asked if she can come hang over again, I said I don't know how to put songs on ipods anymore, she said that's fine. So today she said her Birthdays coming up soon, what am I going to get her, I said I guess I'll get you something nice, any dude can just give you money right? She was in aww over this and said so true.
I said to her, what if when the weathers nice, and I get my license I take you out to eat and do whatever you want? She got extremely excited over this, and said aww, and asked if I was BSing her or will I really do it, I said I would, she didn't respond, so after 30 minutes I asked if she was having second thoughts, she said no, I said good, are you excited ? She said yesss and she sent me a text of the kiss sign, and has been texting me a lot ever since slightly more than normal. She told me her life has changed in the last year, and she wants it to change for the better.
This girls playing with my emotions, do you think she said okay to the birthday idea just as a Friend thing? Or do you think she may like me, and might consider this a date? My emotions are very confused.
So I've known this girl since I was very little, her mom use to be my aunts best friend up until a few years ago. I've always kind of liked her, and I use to have this sense that she liked me.
Well we would only really hang out a few times a year when we were younger, maybe 2 or 3 times a year, we use to always kind of get along, and she was always very pretty.
Anyways I hadn't seen or talked to her in about 2 years before last year, I added her on Facebook, and asked her how are things going, stuff like that. Soon after she asked me for my A.I.M screen name, I gave it to her, we talked on there, started texting and talking on the Phone, and stuff. Than one day she came over, and she asked me if I could help her with her Ipod, I said I'd try and I did, we talked listened to music while we did it, she asked me for money for something to eat I gave her $20, and she left afterwords.
I'll be honest I felt kind of used, I mean once I was done putting music on her Ipod she wanted to leave, and asked me for money, and so I did. After talking to her for a while, another couple of months, she would always ask me to help her with her ipod, I kept saying no I had felt used (didn't tell her that..) but she was okay with that. I still liked her however, I don't know it's like a spell she casted over me lmao.
I than made a really stupid move, I was talking, and I was just like "Fuck other dudes, (not literally lmao) you should be my girl, and she was like aww and started asking me questions, I answered, them and she was like, I think your awesome and stuff, I just don't like you like that right now.. I said okay that's fine, and forgot about it.
A few weeks later on AIM I remember she asked me, why hadn't I asked her out yet? I was really confused, and I said, it's not like you would of said yes anyways right? She goes yea true. So I was like, and see that is why I didn't ask you out, why waste my time. So once again I kept talking to her, and she wanted to come over again, and she cracked a joke that maybe she'll help me with my "virgin problem
" (Yes she knew I was a virgin she asked I said yea, I didn't really care neither did she.) So I said fine, you can come over and a few days later I texted her asking if shes still coming over for me to put songs on her ipod, she said why what else did I think she was coming over for, I joked and said Bunz, (Sex) she said hell no your like a cousin to me, I said aww come on, and so on and so forth.
I didn't text her for a while and a few days later she asked is it okay if she still comes over? I said naw, I made up some excuse, and she FLIPPED OUT she wanted to come over extremely badly, I mean really badly, seemed kind of odd to me, I still said no, and she said fine don't talk to me, and I said fine, deleted her number, and blocked her facebook.
A little more than a year later, I re-added her on facebook, said what's up, she said nothing, and to her give her my number. We did and I've been talking to her often again, for a while. She asked if she can come hang over again, I said I don't know how to put songs on ipods anymore, she said that's fine. So today she said her Birthdays coming up soon, what am I going to get her, I said I guess I'll get you something nice, any dude can just give you money right? She was in aww over this and said so true.
I said to her, what if when the weathers nice, and I get my license I take you out to eat and do whatever you want? She got extremely excited over this, and said aww, and asked if I was BSing her or will I really do it, I said I would, she didn't respond, so after 30 minutes I asked if she was having second thoughts, she said no, I said good, are you excited ? She said yesss and she sent me a text of the kiss sign, and has been texting me a lot ever since slightly more than normal. She told me her life has changed in the last year, and she wants it to change for the better.
This girls playing with my emotions, do you think she said okay to the birthday idea just as a Friend thing? Or do you think she may like me, and might consider this a date? My emotions are very confused.
