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Try talking to her about it. Do you think she might be feeling that you've lost the spark in your relationship as well?

 

i honestly dont know what she feels, and it would proboly cause a fight if i straight up told her and then it would be how come YOU dont love me I love you ( on her end )

 

But if you're in a relationship you should be able to tell each other everything. The only other advice I can give you is try going away somewhere for the weekend, get some quality time just you two.

 

I have an idea for you it's sound a bit cheesy but it might work

how about we she leaves the apartment you put some candles around the bed flowers romantic music maybe this will help....

 

Don't have sex for a while. If you have sex often in a long relationship the spark will go away. Wait a few before having sex again. When you're done waiting from the "sex vacation" try to do something new that you never done before, like anal or sex toys or something.

I wish the best for you.

 

i dont think you necessarily need anal sex or toys or something as the person above me said but maybe spend some time apart/dont have sex for a while and you might realize how much you guys dont like to be apart and how much you love eachother and the fire will reignite automatically. good luck

 

Talk to her about it, and the sex.

ask her to take control for once, and talk to her about spicing up your sex life its nothing to be ashamed of.