Ex-gf opinions

datpo · Jan 11, 2015

Well I broke up with her and all that and we said we would stay friends but haven't talked at all since the breakup. On my birthday, (yesterday) I got a text that reads-

"Hey ik I'm a day late but happy birthday! even tho we may not talk much anymore you're always going to be one of the most genuinely nice people I've ever met and I hope you had a great 17th!"

Basically what I'm asking, is this just a friendly gesture or is she trying to tell me she misses me? I just have my doubt because of the second sentence.

whaatitdo · Jan 11, 2015

I think its just a friendly gesture. Just my .02.

Entrr · Jan 11, 2015

whaatitdo said:
I think its just a friendly gesture. Just my .02.

I agree with this. You could try and respark a flame if you'd like but it's no guarantee.

Virtual Merchant · Jan 11, 2015

This explains your personal support thread, I assume? I don't think she's implying the latter, but I think it's an indication that she thinks highly of you

Lvl 75 Def · Jan 12, 2015

If she missed you she'd tell you, it's just a friendly gesture and i wouldn't go chasing after her again or try to generate a spark again. She's being nice that's all.

Bare · Jan 12, 2015

Definately a friendly gesture my friend.

Superfluous · Jan 12, 2015

"Thanks, hope all is well with you!" would put the ball in her court as to where she stands wrt your relationship, but I agree with the above posters; just sounds like a friendly text.

datpo · Jan 12, 2015

Ok thanks guys. I wasn't thinking about getting back together with her, I just thought it was a bit odd haha.

SupremeLeader · Jan 12, 2015

Yeah, as I do not know why you 2 broke up... But my guess she was just trying to be nice as it was your birthday and not just give you a lame text like "hb" or some shit lol