Everything About Girls. Problems and Solutions

Hi everybody so my brother who is a kind man and saw this forum decided to make a guide to help you people. So below is his experience and stuff.

Something i learned is that, once youve lost that special someone for a reason that you coudve easily corrected.
you dont got ONE DAY without thinking about it. And currently I dont go ONE day without thinking about all the chances i ruined
with the smartest, kindest and most beautiful girls ive ever met.

This feeling shoudnt belong anyone at all, its something that grips your heart with grief each day and its something that I dont want anyone to have.
So im making this to help you potential guys.

I noticed that there is a lot of people posting things that have to do with relationship issues.

Ive been in many relationships around 5 and i was only 16, now its more but that dosnt matter.

SO im going to tell you about how each time I (The guy) managed to ruin the relationship and what you should NOT do.

I will also update this on approaching girls, asking them out, what to do if youve been cheated on, and many other aspects.

I raed the rules and didnt see anything about not being able to post here to help others by making a thread however if i am breaking a rule, feel free to remove the thread mods.


I have made simple rules to which you should follow.

CHAPTER 1: How To NOT Ruin A Relationship

Rule 1.
For the love of god DO NOT INSULT ANY GIRLS NO MATTER HOW MEAN THEY ARE. EVEN IF YOUR GIRLFRIEND DOES NOT KNOW THEM.​

1. A relationship i had i thought it would be good, we had great time together and we both liked each other. This was in about highschool and we both liked each other.

His friends told me he liked me and my idiot friends did the same to him.
HOW I ruined it in AN INSTANT.

We knew eachother for 4 years and one day during a project i was with this ugly girl and she was also mean. There was 4 people, 2 girls and 2 guys. Both me and my friend hated her not because of her looks but because of how he she literally forced the rest of the team to do work.

Such as standing us up afterschool and in the end not even showing up the open gallery night.

How i ruined it? I got really mad while we were working after school (the other girl, my friend and I)

So i said something like "Stupid ugly B**** she made us to all the F**** work and now she dosnt even show up? no wonder why everyone hates that dumb ugly B****"

BELIEVE I KNOW WHAT I SAID MADE ME A ASSHOLE AT THE MOMENT AND BELIEVE ME EVEN MORE WHEN I SAY THAT I REGRET IT....sort of.

Well after that, the girl who was there happened to overhear and the next day told my crush (the girl that also liked me)

Than this conversation happened on MSN:

Girl i liked will be called Elly, and I will be called Bob.

Elly:YOU SON OF A B*TCH
Bob: ?
Elly: SHE TOLD ME ABOUT WHAT YOU SAID ABOUT HER!!! APOLOGIZE
Bob: WELL SHE WAS THE ***HOLE THAT STOOD UP THE GROUP AND MADE US DO THE WORK.
Elly:APOLOGIZE NOW!
Bob: IL APOLOGIZE BUT I SURE AS F*CK WONT MEAN IT! (I actually said this, this SINGLE line would ruin a relationship.)
Elly:Okay, but i dont want to be friends anymore
Bob: OKAY (once again fuck myself for not saying something such as, wait im sorry and im wrong.)

That is just 1/100 of the actual convo.

So you see that simple mistake of instead of INITIALLY saying, your right i was just mad and il say sorry. I made a stupid error.

Please dont do it. The girl i liked didnt even know the girl i insulted.

Part 2.
Relationship number 2 and how it coudnt start either.

Rule 2: If you find out someone else likes your crush, dont lose hope NEVER lose hope and above all ASK HER OUT EVEN IF THE OTHER GUY GOT REJECTED. ( I CANNOT STRESS THE IMPORTANCE OF THIS ONE) ​

For this relationship I was at a dance and i was going to ask my bestfriend out.

Anyways i find out her ex-bf also wants to ask her out.
To erase confusion:
I am "bob"
Bestfriend and crush is "Elly"
Other guy who likes "elly" will be called "Donkey"

Basically during this dance im going to ask out elly. But donkey (her ex-bf) also is planning to do that
But i have no idea of this.
I also tell a friend thats a girl that im going to ask elly out and shes excited AND TELLERS HER WITHOUT MY KNOWLEDGE...
halfway through the night, Donkey asks elly out BUT SHE SAIS NO.
So i lose courage and i get depressed and I ASK RANDOM GIRL OUT WHO ACTUALLY SAID YES.

I then found out that the ONLY reason elly said no to donkey was because she wanted to say yes to me. (remember that girl who told her about that?)

So basically for 2 months, elly and my other bestfriend question me why i asked this random girl out...

Lesson: You know never what she knows.

Side note: We are now still best friends even though she has moved, even though were far apart we Skype regulary and never lose contact and i hope to beign a relationship with her one day. And maybe more haha...

 

Okay, you hardly have any room to talk.. 5 relationships before you were 16? More since? You seem to just be jumping between women. Maybe you would be in more of a position to give advice if you had been in a good serious relationship that lasted more than a few months.

 

Women are much like men in that there are many different types of women, some women just absolutely love assholes and some don't. Your advice is too specific to work for everyone much like most of the relationship guides you will get. There are general behaviors that are commonplace in each woman (much like men) that you can exploit for your own benefit (sex/free meals/ect) but if you want a steady relationship you have to take it slow with them and see what they are like and show them you are interested.

Before you become an adult dating doesn't really mean anything because you barely know anything about yourself let alone trying to get to know another person. The best bet is to be yourself, that way you will attract someone who will like you for who you are and not some facade that you will not be able to keep up all of the time. Relationships that don't last are generally ones where there is a personality clash (such as your example), a party isn't emotionally ready for a relationship or a party is pretending to have a different personality than they really have.

 

Yeah.. every single person on this planet is different, why would it apply to every single one of them?

 

Closed.
I know you're trying to help and all, but Personal Support isn't a section for guides, I don't particularly want it full of guides and then we miss someone's thread when they need help.
Post it in the guides section if you want it seen please.