Ever felt like a complete shit?

[Lillie_Services]

I'm not the kind of person that would normally post in the ''Personal Support'' section of a forum, or even ask help to someone else I don't know, but I guess I don't have anyone else that I want to talk about this...

I don't even know what to do now, I feel like complete shit to the eyes of everyone.
Got a couple of friends who are around me, but it just doesn't seem enough, as they don't appear like true friends in my eyes for some odd reason.

Some friends that I meant by playing games often tell me what they do with their friends/bestfriends during the week and weekends, and it never comes close to what I could have thought.

My friends just seem to be there when I'm at my best or when they need someone to talk...

Some of them have been my friends for five years, but they never call me out of school, never text me, everything is done inside the school.

It just turns me down to see how pathetic my life is and I just don't know what to do about it anymore, getting called ''Liar'', ''Hypocrite'', ''He just doesn't care'' and such is killing me and I don't know what to do about it.

Anything to HELP would be appreciated... Might just help from changing school, as I'm finally done with Highschool...

 

[Davidp123]

Try hanging out with friends outside of school or try meeting new people who have similar interests so you can go out with them to sporting events or whatever your into, maybe they just see you as acting distant.

 

Why are you being called a liar or a hypocrite?
They're not very good friends if they say and mean those things.

If they're just joking around, then just engage in conversation after school, give them a text and organise a game of football or something, what ever you want to do

 

[Got Weed]

Were you close to your friends before? If so, what would you do/say to make them want to be around you?

 

[SexayMistahBee]

In my opinion, when somebody is in a trouble like yours, they're not here looking for advice. They're here because they need somebody to talk to; somebody who will listen to their problems.

Maybe you should just pour out everything that's inside you.

I see that you tried to compile the main points and left out the small details, maybe you should tell us everything that you're comfortable talking about in public.

Or, you could tell everything, including the ones that you wouldn't be comfortable talking in public with somebody in private. A sythe member or your best buddy and so on

 

[kk6]

If you're done with high school, and are going to college next semester, don't worry about it! Everyone finds new friends who they become close with because you're living together, and you guys can find time to get dinner/play video games/go to movies/do whatever you guys want to do.

I think it's important to know who your true close friends are and make sure you keep them close because they'll support you. Sounds like most of the friends you have/had in high school are the ones that wouldn't stay in touch if you guys moved away/separated. It's fine having a lot of acquaintances and knowing a lot of people, but try to find just a couple of friends - ones you can always go out with, drink with, or do things you enjoy together with.

For example, I know that even though some of my closest friends from high school are all around the world now, Paris, China, India, Italy, etc - they still have time to keep me updated via Facebook/Skype. Find those people who you really connect with and you'll feel a lot better. Good friends are hard to come by, but when you meet someone genuine and who's a good friend - definitely make an effort to stay in touch.

 

[kill dank]

You're life's about to change, big time. Especially with college. Try to just hold out and learn to be happy with what you have. You'll see. The best part of your life is right ahead.

 

[Lillie_Services]

Try hanging out with friends outside of school or try meeting new people who have similar interests so you can go out with them to sporting events or whatever your into, maybe they just see you as acting distant.

They're always busy with home things(??), job and such... I'm not the kind of person who finds friends easily, even though I'm extremely sociable... :/

Why are you being called a liar or a hypocrite?
They're not very good friends if they say and mean those things.

If they're just joking around, then just engage in conversation after school, give them a text and organise a game of football or something, what ever you want to do

I don't care if people who joke about me being a liar, as everyone lie from time to time and it's fine like this. I myself am very sarcastic and joke a lot, so I kind of know when someone is joking or not.. I think :/
Most of the people I text out of school are girls, as they're the only one who really text and want to go out, most of the time.
And for the sport thing... My friends aren't really into sports unfortunately..

If you're done with high school, and are going to college next semester, don't worry about it! Everyone finds new friends who they become close with because you're living together, and you guys can find time to get dinner/play video games/go to movies/do whatever you guys want to do.

I think it's important to know who your true close friends are and make sure you keep them close because they'll support you. Sounds like most of the friends you have/had in high school are the ones that wouldn't stay in touch if you guys moved away/separated. It's fine having a lot of acquaintances and knowing a lot of people, but try to find just a couple of friends - ones you can always go out with, drink with, or do things you enjoy together with.

For example, I know that even though some of my closest friends from high school are all around the world now, Paris, China, India, Italy, etc - they still have time to keep me updated via Facebook/Skype. Find those people who you really connect with and you'll feel a lot better. Good friends are hard to come by, but when you meet someone genuine and who's a good friend - definitely make an effort to stay in touch.

Hoping on college to fix everything, and hopefully I'll meet people at job too, as my friends don't have big points in common with me..


Thanks for all your time you took guys took to help me, it's much appreciated.

 

[kk6]

Keep your chin high and head up, it's all going to get better from here.

But a word of advice: definitely enter college with an open and good attitude. Your college experience can be frankly shitty or amazing depending on your perspective. I love college and never want to leave it; but I know one of my friends (during her first year) had so much trouble adjusting at her college. She wasn't open to making friends, just complained about how she didn't want to be there, went home a lot, etc. You need to be open to making friends, finding new experiences, and having a good attitude about it will help you a lot.