Encourage Someone

Say you're stuck between a rock and a hard spot? You're loved, say you or one of your loved ones is battling an illness, facing financial faults, or struggling with an addiction. You're important, the point to understand is that no matter what the circumstance, or what your religious, or political beliefs are, this thread is specifically dedicated to you. Perhaps you're facing a potential break up, or divorce, or you're stuck in a rut for whatever the reason. Post whatever's on your heart in this thread, whether it be a question dealing with your personal every day life, or a question that you've been longing to answer, even goal that you've been tediously focusing on accomplishing. Here's the place you can share with the community, and expect positive feed back and encouragement no matter what the circumstance at hand is. Only positive, polite, energetic opinions are welcome here guys!

On a side note, I am having issues with my self esteem in college. Currently, I'm enrolled at a local community college, my degree is Business Administration and it's raking me over the coals. I could really use some moral support because already my degree is putting up a fight, and I'm only half way through my associates. Managerial accounting, and pre-calc are terribly difficult courses that I need to sustain a B in at the least. I feel like I'm a nobody in college, and I'm not afraid to share that here because even if one of you guys can coincide with me then that's all my heart needs to hear. That I'm not alone in this college conquest, seriously.

 

SIR YES SIR! You are definitely not alone in this No matter how difficult your current course is i'm sure you will make it out of it successfully! With hardwork and determination you can do it!

On a side note : Thanks for making this thread, i could really use some encouragement right now!

I am in a situation where i feel lost. I haven't shared it with any of my friends or family. But i really needed a medium to let it out and talk about it. I liked a girl five years ago and still do now. But i never have the courage nor confidence to go after what i want, as i fear rejection. This is haunting me every second i am awake, i am overwhelmed with regret and despair... I hope one day eventually i will dare.

AND FOR ALL THOSE OUT THERE WHO NEEDS ENCOURAGEMENT, BELIEVE IN YOURSELF YOU CAN DO IT

 

Are you currently friends? If so, why not just go straight up and ask her? It will save getting eaten away at every time you see here and thinking you could be with her, and your not. Good luck (This positive enough?)

 

It's bold, and boldness is what needs to be expressed for this type of situation. As cliche as this sounds, break the ice, women rarely make the first move. This means they're looking for guys with personalities, so go up to her and be yourself, if she doesn't show an interest then at least you can be friendly with her. Genuineness is key when wheeling broads

 

It's been 5 years since we last met! And i think we liked each other for a while when we were 11 ( hahaha ), now we're 17, but i still can't get over her. It's true that everytime i think about it i feel like part of me is dying, but i just don't have the guts ( what a sissy ).

I just hope there will be this one chance that we'll meet again unintentionally ( though we are in different schs ) and maybe i could get things going.

I don't care if we can't be in a relationship, i just want to be friends and see her once more! But even that i fear... I fear all sorts of stuff.

Thanks alot of your responses, i feel so happy people actually do care!!! That's enough for now i guess Thanks once again

 

I've been going through girl issues myself, I went out with this girl who I truly, truly loved and I let her go because I thought I was hurting her, Recently I accidentally texted her and we talked again, I poured everything from my heart to her and she rejected me, we became friends for the past few days when I said I'll be there in any way you need me, Last night I found an old poem I wrote for her saying how I feel, it's almost just like a new one I wrote for her as well, She broke down and asked for me back and today was our first day anew! COME ON MAN, JUST ASK HER EVEN IF SHE SAYS NO IF YOUR A GOOD GUY SHE'LL COME BACK FOR YOU!

 

Your hierarchy of needs should be Master > Mission > Mate. Until you square those first two off, seeking a serious relationship is daunting.

 

Hey i think this is a really good thread, but maybe should be moved to personal support so that it'll be of more use?