Alright so I have a tough choice for this upcoming weekend.
There's 3 girls I've been talking to, 2 are going to a party that I might go to, but idk if they like me or only see me as a friend. The third is coming home from college this weekend, hit me up and asked if we can hang out at her house and drink. Here's some info.
Girl #1 - She added me on Facebook over a year ago, didn't know who she was, never even chilled with her before. She hit me up two saturdays ago, invited me to a party that night, so I went, and it was the first time chilling with her. She even picked me up from the bar and took me to the party. We have texted every day since then, and her license was suspended and hasn't gotten it back, I'll text her and say like "get your license back so you can come cuddle and watch movies with me." and once I said "get your license back so you can take me on a hott date to quaker steak and lube" and her replies are always "Okay I'll try!!" Don't know if she's just sayin that, or if she means it. There is some creeper that followed her around at both parties and is obsessed with her and she goes out of her way to make it known to me that she doesn't like him, and she said she's so glad I'm not him. I like to joke around and act jealous to her, then she says something about the kid, and I just write back "k" and she's like "everyone knows I don't like him." Me and my buddy threw a party this past saturday which she came to and invited a bunch of her friends. I got bombed and blacked out because I didn't eat all day and I chugged whiskey. Earlier into to the party, I told her to call off work and said that I'm worth it, and she said "you are." I texted her after she left and said "shoulda just stayed here with me, I woulda got you home." And she texted back and said "I should have, I'm fuckin pissed." My buddy said that I was touching her a bit that night and flirting with her and he said she seemed to not mind it and he said she seemed into me too but I don't remember since I blacked out. I texted her and said "He told me I was touching you and flirting with you, I honestly don't remember that, I'm sorry if it made you uncomfortable." and she said "Don't worry about it!!! it's no problem." And one time I texted her and said that I like when chicks make the first move and she said she never makes the first move. (She is also a virgin and I'd like to date her). She posted this on my facebook wall the other day after she made a "like for a truth is status"
Truth is, you're hilarious & so down to earth!! I love how understanding and sweet you are!! I love talking to you. & you're always In such a positive mood which is amazing!! we def should chill more
Girl #2 - Liked her for a bit, whenever we text she's always writing "lol" or "haha." Always says how nice and sweet I am, she was at the party this past saturday that me and my buddy threw, and she ended up getting drunk and took a dude back to her place and ended up hooking up. The next day, I told her that he told me about it, and she started crying and said she was gonna kill herself and shit like that, and I asked why and she said "I don't want you to look at me any differently or look at me like I'm a skank." I just played it fine and said "Don't worry I won't look at you any differently." Which I definitely will. The kid she hooked up with was a scumbag and I'm honestly disgusted, but she is absolutely gorgeous and wouldn't mind hooking up with her as well.
Girl #3 - Met her over facebook a little over a month ago, always hits me up and wants me to come drink with her but I'm always busy. On Halloween she texted me and told me to come cuddle with her and shit, but I was at the bar. She always flirts with me and she texted me yesterday saying "Heyyy, are you gonna come hang out with me when I come up this weekend?" I told her I didn't know, and we texted for a bit, then I wrote I'm broke this week, no money to drink, I'm pissed. Unless you have booze at your house, I can come chill." She hasn't written back yet. She's hinted that she wants to fuck me.
Now, I need to know, should I take the risk and go to the party and go for the first two? Or should I just go with the safer choice and go with girl #3. My friends have all given me different answers so hard to decide.
Also, how do I know if I'm (friendzoned) by #1 and #2? Is there any safe way to ask them if they see me as a friend or if they like me without actually saying it? Don't want to ruin any friendships. I'm not good with this whole friendzone deal. Usually I let the woman know what I want from the start and my intentions and don't make them my friends, but I heard something like "some of the best relationships form from great friendships" But honestly, in my eyes, being friends with the opposite sex never works. One of the two people either grow feelings for the other, or builds a sexual attraction towards the one. Thanks for any advice.
