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  1. D00M

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    should i just move on?

    i love my girlfriend..

    our relationships just a lie.. she has a fake fb account hid it from me for last 6 months.. should i just end it?

    she inbox's ppl
     
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    should i just move on?

    I would break it off as soon as I found out my partner was being dishonest. But that's just my opinion.

    A dishonest relationship goes nowhere. I mean... if you're keeping secrets, they will all come out eventually, and I'd rather just know about it in the first place so I can end it before it turns into something that will hurt more later on.
     
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    should i just move on?

    should i jus fuk her around? fuk her over n shit?

    use her fa money n shit ?
     
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    should i just move on?

    Whats wrong with her having a fake fb account? What does she use it for?
    Granted yes she hid it from you, depending on the type of person you are you might take offence to this; you obviously are not happy about this.

    From my perspective if it's just a fake fb account and she doesn't do much on it then whats the harm.

    If you love her and she loves you and you want to, "jus fuk her around? fuk her over n shit? use her fa money n shit ?" Then I would end it based on that. If you truly "loved" someone you wouldn't even contemplate doing such things.
     
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    end it man, you cant stick with 1 piece your whole life.

    its obv she wants another piece.

    just ask her if she wants to keep a side thing going :) kinda like her "fake FB page" haha
     
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    should i just move on?

    Find it the whole truth first.

    If it turns out the way you had expected, it's best you end it simply. Don't resort to revenge.
     
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    ?this isnt an e-relationship is it.....?? if its not then keep your head up man i had something similar to this happen to me and we got thru it but it took a lot of work if your willing for that then go for it pal.
     
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    Can we hear more of the situation? What's wrong with the facebook account?
     
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    should i just move on?

    She made another facebook account that he didn't know about and used it to message guys.

    Relationships are based on trust. If you can't trust her, theres no reason to be with her. She really screwed up by going behind her back. But because she dis that, it doesn't give you the right to do shit back to her. Be the bigger man here and just move on. It would look childish to carry on or "fuck" with her. Show her that your done with her and can move on like it's nothing, that would really piss her off.

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    That would be quite pathetic. If you truly cared about the relationship, you wouldn't think about doing these things. You should really find out what is going on first, then wait. If it turns out you're right, be the bigger man and end it with no hard feelings and no backstabbing her. Just end it.

    If you do backstab her, then you aren't a man.
     
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    sorry should of added i live with her..

    shes dodgy.
     
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    im going to be a bitch (but not a big bitch) to her til i find out the truth..
     
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    should i just move on?

    Clearly you don't "love" her then, either that or you merely don't understand the meaning of love. Just because you have intercourse, live with her, and enjoy spending time with her... doesn't classify your feelings as love.

    If I ever found out my Fiancee had a fake facebook account, was messaging other guys, or even cheating on me... We'd have serious issues. But I would never do anything to make her unhappy or hurt her. In fact, I'd forgive her in a moments breath. I would be hurt beyond belief, but not because she was doing this... I would be hurt because I clearly wasn't good enough to keep her from doing this.

    Don't put all of the blame on her. Find out why this would happen, confront the matter, don't pussy foot around it. If you continue the lies, you'll never be able to be happy. And even if your relationship ends because of it, you'll know that you tried.

    Right now, I'd imagine you have it set in your head that you should end the relationship. If that's in your mind, then I say you shouldn't be in a relationship with her anyways. If you've thought that, then you clearly have no interest in fixing your problems, and being with her any longer will just make you feel worse.

    If you start attacking her, or making her life hell... you're no better than she. So my straight up advice would be to confront the issues head on like an adult should. Don't hurt her, don't be a dick head, voice your concerns, and don't accept no for an answer. Think positive, and remember to not give up on a relationship just because of a speed bump.

    Just chill, and stop jumping to conclusions until you know the whole story.
     
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    should i just move on?

    Why don't you ask her why she is lying to you?
    Basically you acting like that makes the whole situation worse.

    I understand you love her, but it would be smarter and more civilized if you just ask her straight up.

    If she tells you the truth, it is a bump in your relationship.
    If you feel she doesn't, you can end it by explaining to her that you wouldn't want to live with someone that is dishonest.

    Feel free to update us on your situation.
     
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    If your partner is dishonest, it's time to walk away.
     
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    walk away with no intent of revenge. hurting her wont make u feel better, and if it does for some reason, ull regret it later down the road, i promise u that
     
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    Judging by your posts I regret trying to help you. because someone wrongs you, doesn't mean you wrong them.
     
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