Love, and cheating. (Please help with vocab)

Ok so all my life I've been around people that could seemingly not give a shit about relationships. I've had about 2 best friends give up there amazing down to earth girlfriends for cheating/whore/slut/skanks. My dad basically destroyed his family by cheating on my mom with multiple women which is why my mom now has cancer. My dumb ass brother obviously doesnt give a shit either cause he cheats on his honest girlfriend everyday with some pothead chick. So basically these are the situations I live with I can honestly say Im the only one I know that has respect for females because I dont agree with the whole player/pimp situation. I've been in love before and I've never cheated and so it bothers me to see all this happen and expect to back my dad or friends up when asked. I'd rather hit them in there face.


Obviously my vocab sucks so I was REALLY hoping someone could help put this in a short aggressive verbose sentence or three. Im trying to express my feelings to everyone I know but obviously cant so PLEASE HELP, you dont have to have the best vocab but short and verbose please.

So what are your views on this and do you agree?

 

Sorry to be offtopic but?

 

Sorry. Anyone with power mind moving to this to Personal Support & Assistance.

 

Really feel for you mate,

So what are your plans? Are you willing to face them and ask them to stop or? I really haven't been in these situations but I'd be more than happy to help you. Just PM me for any assistance buddy.

 

1. You can't blame your dad for your mums cancer, its caused multiple ways.

2. I know what you mean, but you cant force people to change, people are who they are, and its the girls fault for not realising that there in a dead end relationship, they should just leave and move on.

 

Set an example, im like you, and dont believe in the whole player thing what-so-ever.

Set an example for your friends, and family, explain to them why its betters, an worthwhile to devote yourself too 1 girl.

 

I know how you feel... I disagree with it, majorly. However for some reason, I did something just as equally horrific. Twice... well, I did it all in one day. I regret it more than anything and wish I could take it back.

I wish you the best of luck with this, as for the words, I'm not too sure what you could say...

 

There's nothing you can really do about your family and friends. What you can do is set an example. Get a girlfriend and don't cheat on her. Hopefully, others will follow your example.

And also,

What do you mean by this?

 

Kleenex, I'm assuming she chain smoked and most likely got cancer from the cigarettes. Or something of that sort.

 

You can't change the way they are going to act all you can do is not cover for them anymore and always stay faithful and prove to them that not cheating on your significant other is a lot more rewarding ...

 

I'm just wondering, how did your mother get cancer from your father cheating on her? I'm sorry if this is a rude question, I really don't mean to be rude or anything, I'm just wondering.

I'm a good man, I wouldn't dare cheat on my girlfriend if I did have one. I think it's stupid how people cheat on one another, it's all about trust and to believe your boyfriend/girlfriend to not cheat on you. I'm an honest man, I get way too paranoid if I did cheat on my girlfriend if I did have one. If a girl was coming on to me, and I knew she had a boyfriend, I would reject her automatically. Also, if you don't don't like your boyfriend/girlfriend, just tell her that you're not interested anymore, I'm sure they would understand.

-LeetNeo.

 

She could have cancer by: stress. Having the father leave in the relationship could cause large amounts of anxiety, which has already been proven to cause stomach ulcers. It could accelerate the growth of cancer as well.

 

Ah I see, thanks for letting me know. I appreciate it.

-LeetNeo.

 

That might be it, but the way he worded it was that she got cancer directly from his dad cheating.

 

Its life. You only live once. Do as you please.

 

Does it not make you feel good knowing that you aren't like them?

That's the way I think about it

 

hi man

you can't change the world or how it behaves, but you can make the world a better place by living your life by your own personal code of honour.

If anyone questions the way you want to 'love', just tell them that your heart won't let you love any other way. If they have a problem with that, that's their problem, not yours - because their heart won't let them love any other way.